Tomassi's Iron Rules  

 

may72020
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21/09/2018 2:18 pm  

Rollo Tomassi wrote 3 books called The Rational Man. 

https://medium.com/@tinderflaneur/iron-rules-iron-rule-of-tomassi-list-all-9-iron-rules-of-rollo-tomassi-852bbd1765d1

ALL IRON RULES OF TOMASSI LIST:

Iron Rule of Tomassi #1

Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.

Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2

NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3

Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #4

NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #5

NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #6

Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.

In its simplicity this speaks volumes about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment.

Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #8

Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her.

An integral part of maintaining the feminine imperative as the societal imperative involves keeping women as the primary sexual selectors. As I’ve detailed in many prior comments and posts, this means that a woman’s sexual strategy necessitates that she be in as optimized a condition as her capacity (attractiveness) allows for her to choose from the best males available to satisfy that strategy.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #9

Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for — women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t seriously consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-Depreciation is a misguided tool for the AFC, and not something that would even occur to an Alpha.

 

I will not disclose how many of these Iron Rules I did not follow. Let us say that had I been aware of these principles, I would not be in this position today.


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21/09/2018 5:50 pm  

Not your fault. You did not know about this then. Now you know and it will never happen again.


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The Evil Genius
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21/09/2018 6:33 pm  

Well that is a lot of rules; I have one simple rule: Have nothing to do with women---at all---ever. That seems to about cover it. 


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Don Keyknob
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21/09/2018 7:04 pm  

I can concur with the assessment regarding self deprecation. 

I like to joke and have a laugh. Part of my sense of humour is to take the piss out of people. The British do this with their friends all the time. We call each other derogatory names. Far from being a negative thing, it is usually widely accepted as a term of endearment between friends. I remember my old boss used to welcome us all into work with random insults. "Now then...you daft twat", etc. The addition to this is that it often works both ways. If you take the piss out of others, you also take the piss out of yourself. I do that a lot.

I used to think that women appreciated the self deprecating humour. It certainly got enough laughs out of them and an encouragement to continue. We get told that is important, don't we? The ability to make them laugh. It isn't important. It's a waste of time. It doesn't do anything credible to your benefit. It just serves to 'entertain' them...which is what they want. Free entertainment.

It took me a long time to realise that making them laugh in this way was pointless. The entertainment value was scoring me zero points and getting me wedged firmly into the 'friendzone'. A handy clown. Every self deprecating thing that I said was, more than likely, being used as perfect reasons for a relationship NOT to happen. The analysis from the article is quite correct. Accepting that if the humour use of self deprecation doesn't work, actual and genuine self deprecation is worse still.

There is no pity. Don't expect any. Don't hope for any. This just invokes pure disgust.

In my opinion the article is spot on. If you want anything to do with women, keep firmly away from any type of self deprecation. It serves no worthwhile purpose. It can be a valuable trait between male friends as it shows you either as humorous or, at least, an honest man.

The disappointing thing is that the opposite works a treat. Go figure. Even if you are full of the proverbial 'shit' and have nothing at all going for you, just pretending that you are amazing will often seal the deal. In the short term at least.

I can't help feeling though, that the author has put a great deal of excessive work into the list. I'm sure that, like me, many of you could have written an alternative list containing just the one rule.

Anyone?? 

      


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Don Keyknob
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21/09/2018 7:24 pm  

Less of the lip you....you f***ing cock jockey!!!! 🤣  


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Uly The Cunning
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22/09/2018 1:25 am  

I can personally stand by these rules as being critical for a man. These rules can be the difference between having a pump and dump relationship or being a contributer of pound me too statistics. If a woman makes you wait for sex, she has someone else that she is having sex with. Women are sexual deviants. They are more sexually active than men from my experience. I was good with once a day or every other day, and I would often find women that wanted sex multiple times a day, and still want more. This changes as they age, but younger women are very sexually active. If you are not getting it, someone else is. 

"Remember, you're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did."
Groucho Marx: Duck Soup (1933)


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24/09/2018 2:33 am  

Thanks May for the summary as well as the URL. I have enjoyed what I've see so far and lookforward to sharing this information to others this week at work. 

​"What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal." -Albert Pike

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland


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24/09/2018 2:49 am  

#6 Should be framed in every mans room growing up as a reminder. That’s the one that hurts the most. I still have a hard time of letting it go. I got unplugged late, like Neo. I’m still waiting for my Unicorn Trinity to show up.

#Remember therefore how thou hast received and heard, and hold fast, and repent. If therefore thou shalt not watch, I will come on thee as a thief, and thou shalt not know what hour I will come upon thee. (Revelation 3:3)


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02/10/2018 11:38 pm  
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#6 Should be framed in every mans room growing up as a reminder. That’s the one that hurts the most. I still have a hard time of letting it go. I got unplugged late, like Neo.

This was my tragedy as well. That, and due to the shitty starfish sex finally straying after about 16 faithful years. Of course I was found out, and the nuclear option was used. I do accept my part. Should have sacked the fuck up and left sooner and never strayed. I was so blue pill it wasnt even funny. Can you imagine being a slave to a laydeez whims for 17 years??? 

Take heed lurkers....#6 is arguably the most important rule to follow... learn it and know to your core that no matter how sweet and kind and loving she seems, she will NEVER love you selflessly.....ever. 


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MG-ɹǝʍo┴
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02/10/2018 11:50 pm  

Rollo Tomassi is a fucking idiot! 

MG-Tower's rules! 

Rule #.1 Fuckem! 

Rule #.2 Fuckem Again!  

Rule #.3 Revert to Rule #.1 


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Uly The Cunning
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03/10/2018 11:43 am  
Posted by: MG-Tower

Rollo Tomassi is a fucking idiot! 

MG-Tower's rules! 

Rule #.1 Fuckem! 

Rule #.2 Fuckem Again!  

Rule #.3 Revert to Rule #.1 

Reminds me of Fight Club. Not a bad policy though. Women are not to be trusted, unless you enjoy being a slave.

"Remember, you're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did."
Groucho Marx: Duck Soup (1933)


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