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15/09/2019 8:45 pm  

Wrapping up my second divorce. First wife left me for moneybags, and I guess the second one did too. The really fucked up thing, is this dude up until recently was her step-father. Her mom and him have been divorced for about two weeks now. but they been living together for the last few months. I’m assured that there is nothing going on between them. Like anyone believes that. And as a real kick in the nuts, I caught this same ass-hole swapping nude photo’s with my then 15 year old stepdaughter. I wanted to arrest him but hey, it would have destroyed her reputation, and after a long ass fight was made to promise to drop it.

 

My divorce is getting finalised on the 26th. I don’t really know how I feel about that. No more drama and all that shit, but I miss my son. Not going there so don’t ask.

 

I guess my main reason for being here was originally the question “why”. Is there something wrong with me, or the rest of the world? Guess time will tell on that score. I have been doing a lot of reading and trying to find out exactly what it is that women want. And I think I might have found out: “more”. That’s it. And as an added bonus I may have also found out what women don’t want: “accountability”. Looking back on all my past relationships with just those two points in mind, all their behaviour and eccentricities suddenly make sense.

 

Well here I am, absolutely average in every way I can see. Just another grey man.

I used to be married, but I'm better now


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The Evil Genius
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15/09/2019 9:43 pm  

Welcome Grey. Grab a beer and pull up chair. No there is nothing wrong with you---except perhaps you were blue-pilled but that is over now. You've discovered what millions of men have/are discovering: the true nature of females. The fact you were lied to most of your life will likely piss you off but only for a while it will pass. The good news is that armed with red-pill knowledge you can begin to rebuild your life and this time no one will be able to take anything from you. 


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Old Buck
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15/09/2019 10:41 pm  

Welcome Grey.  Right now you are in a dark place.  It will take some time to heal, results will not happen overnight.  Take it easy as you can relax now, the fight is almost over and peaceful times are ahead.

We are a mixed group.  Some men here have experienced shit that would make your head spin.  Some are survivors, some like myself are lucky enough to NOT marry.  But we all have something in common.  We are all examples of how to survive this gynocentric society and forge a path in life towards success.

You have found a group of men who understand what you are going thru, and the hurdles you may face ahead.

Your life isn't over, my friend.  It is a new beginning.  You can now begin to focus on what YOU need to do to become successfull.  You are no longer responsible for an adult child who has shunned all responsibilities.

As time goes on you will be able to look back and actually see yourself making progress, and your ex will make the same mistakes over and over again.

Welcome to independence, Brother!

Do NOT chase tail. Turn yours around and live FREE!


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16/09/2019 4:04 pm  

Thanks for the welcome. I didn’t so much take the red pill, as have a watermelon sized crimson suppository shoved up my ass. Without lube…

 

When I created this profile, I shit you not I was planning something stupid. I was honestly just looking for why everything was so fucked up. I found you guys. Reading the posts I had truth bombs detonating left and right of me. My mind was blown and not in the way I was expecting. I’m in shell shock… this site saved my life.  

 

I’ve had a good night’s sleep since then. As I see it, I have a choice. I could sit in a corner and wallow in my victimhood. But I choose a different path. I’m going to pull my shit together, and be the best me out there. With your permission, and perhaps a little guidance I would like to write in every once in a while and talk about this journey. I’m not sure how, or even why to be honest. I’m just an average guy who is going through some shit. I don’t even know where to start. (Any links and articles you think might help would be appreciated.)

 

And from a grey man, thanks for being there.

I used to be married, but I'm better now


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Old Buck
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16/09/2019 4:45 pm  

In order to find a direction, whether in life or on a map, you need two things.

  1. Where are you now?
  2. Where are you going?

With those two points you can finally plot your journey.

Right now you can't even honestly answer the first one.  That is fine!  You just need to let your mind settle down and relax.  Good times are spotted on the horizon, my friend.  Take small steps and just remember, every step means you are one step closer to your goal.

Once the toxic feminity is removed from your life, you will be able to think more clearly.  Less stress means you won't need alcohol or drugs to relax, allowing you to think more rationally.  You will spend less money by not trying to impress a woman, and then your bank account increases and the debt is reduced.

 

 With your permission, and perhaps a little guidance I would like to write in every once in a while and talk about this journey. I’m not sure how, or even why to be honest.

If you can't be honest with yourself, who CAN you trust?

Your Brothers here have had similar experiences.  No need for our permission, you are part of our community.

Please do share your experiences.  Not only will it help you air out any questions or guilt you may feel, but you will help out the next man looking for answers.

I had my shotgun in my mouth.  If it wasn't for the men here, we wouldn't be talking.

I finally found purpose in life.  I CAN change the future.  I can save other men who are following in my footsteps.

 

I’m just an average guy who is going through some shit. I don’t even know where to start.

You just did!

Baby steps.  Once you learn to walk, then worry about running.

Peace Brother!

 

Do NOT chase tail. Turn yours around and live FREE!


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Matcha Savage
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16/09/2019 11:16 pm  

Welcome grey!

I´ll have a cold one, too. My choice is a brew from south-eastern Bavaria. It´s the region I often go to with my backpack to get lost in the mountains for a few weeks. The beer down there is so good, that I can hardly tolerate anymore what shamefully passes as beer where I live. I view it as an improvement of life, saves me money, too. Goes without saying: it is helpful to know better and see for it, especially, when it comes to leave bad habits, -beer, -people or - sceneries behind.

This goes for silence, as well. I learned to appreciate the absence of a nagging cunt that is bound to her own selfish ways no matter what red pills I do constantly throw at her to explain to her and make her see the foolishness and destructiveness of her recurring ways. Regarding the length of that sentence, you can probably see with ease, where all my appreciation stems from. I never signed up for being involved into a psyop warfare campaign with a cunt, but that is what it came down to every single time I fell for the LTR (long term relationshit) trap.

Being alone is a requirement for our minds to uncover and tap into our true potential. Realizing this potential and putting it to use in the way we see fit is what step by step makes us confident in our selves - regardless of our surroundings or other people´s judgement. This is what silence brings, the insight into our own, unfolding cosmos, the unknown depths of our own minds. Each and every one of us is gifted with a spark of spirit, that can throw its light into each and every of these depths, illuminating even the furthest regions beyond our own limitations by adding itself wholly to all spirit there is. Like a drop of water that gets added to the ocean. You could not tell any difference.

All of this goes unseen and is unheard of in our wider, postmodern and materialistic society, where people for their whole life are chasing after phantoms, where there is no spirit to speak of and no realization of it to be had. So, familiarize, make yourself at home with the reality that lies beyond the projection and procession of phantoms.

 

 

 


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17/09/2019 4:42 pm  

I’m sitting here digesting everything I’ve read since Sunday.  So taking Old Buck’s advice, I basically did an inventory of my life. I did what can only be described as a “cost benefit analysis”. On paper it doesn’t look bad at all.

 

Pro’s:    

I have a well paying job that I’m truly passionate about. I’m considered one of the best in my field.

My general cost of living used to be around 95% of my salary, with the last 5% going on “life upgrades”. Think that’s woman speak for spending on crap or something.

My general cost of living is now 41% of my salary. Child support she’s asking for comes in at around 7%. Fuck me… brothers, more than half my salary is untouched. And it also excludes the overtime. I now have the option to push extra hours.

Debt I do have, including car, will be paid off in 5 years, assuming I don’t dump extra cash into them. And I have zero need to make debt at all. I can just wait a month or two, then pay cash for what’s needed. (place I’m staying in is fully furnished)

Opportunity to restart my old hobby of tabletop wargaming (yeah, I’m a nerd), as well as learning to play the guitar I bought today… try that while married.

Less “drama” over crap. Hell, less crap. Period.

Im not a beer drinker, but I do like a good whiskey. I just got myself an excellent bottle of Glenfiddich. Saving it for the big day, but its sitting on the shelf looking at me… so tempted…

There’s more but those are just the highlights.

 

Cons:

I will miss my son.

I’m embarrassed I made the same mistake twice.

And three hours later, after wracking my brain, that’s it…

 

Don’t get me wrong, I’m still hurting. My short term goals are to kill debt and rebuild. From there I don’t know. I did read an interesting article that basically says improve your life 1% every day. I think I’m going to try that. Going to give up smoking for one, but after the divorce is done. Imagine going through this shit while going through nicotine withdrawal. Probably join gym. I suppose aiming for a 1% improvement every day is doable.

 

Well yeah, that’s where I am right now. Huge improvement since Sunday, but a ways to go. Thanks brothers.

 

just another grey man

I used to be married, but I'm better now


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17/09/2019 8:03 pm  
Posted by: @grey

Opportunity to restart my old hobby of tabletop wargaming

Fuck me sideways, grey! You abstained from tabletop wargaming?!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 😀 Warhammer 40K by any chance?


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17/09/2019 9:26 pm  

Yeah, and to my greatest shame I sold my 3k space wolves army because "they just collect dust", as per the ex

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17/09/2019 10:10 pm  
Posted by: @grey

Yeah, and to my greatest shame I sold my 3k space wolves army because "they just collect dust", as per the ex

Just remember that every time a woman wants to wiggle back into your life.

At first it may seem difficult to go against your programming, but eventually it will get easier.

Red pill rage comes and goes in waves.  Anytime you need to vent or just talk with a fellow Brother for advice, we are here.

There are also quite a few "humor" threads.  Don't be afraid to join in the fun!

You may also see cat pictures littered about.  Those are left for the single mommies and feminists lurking in our forum!

Do NOT chase tail. Turn yours around and live FREE!


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18/09/2019 12:25 am  
Posted by: @grey

Yeah, and to my greatest shame I sold my 3k space wolves army because "they just collect dust", as per the ex

Have you ever noticed how it's only ever OUR stuff that is collecting dust?

Strange that!! 


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18/09/2019 1:23 am  

One man at a time, an army is slowly forming.  Our day will come.  The fascist-feminists and all the narcissistic bitches that are currently running amok and oppressing us will be crushed and tossed into the garbage heap of history. You have joined the vanguard. 

 


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Gargamel
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18/09/2019 5:43 am  

Welcome to TIM, Mr, Grey!

You are now on the right path in all aspects. Financially and in health matters.

Fighting over bullshit would have given you an early grave like so many men die off long before their nagging and lazy wives do.

You escaped the slavery.

Enjoy your life without "keeping up with the Jones's"

If you miss your son, then try red pilling him so he learns to think clearly about women's lies and deceptions. I know how badly mothers and other female family members do polarize sons to go against their fathers.

 

I have a nice little red pill first aid kit in video form, the banned "MGTOW is Freedom" channel that was purged from CunTube because the truth bombs Big John detonated were way over the charts.

https://www.bitchute.com/channel/mgtow-is-freedom/

.... Or the all-in-one Archive.org fileset.

https://archive.org/details/BigJohn-MGTOWIsFreedom-VideoArchive

 

Forever Uncunted - If it has a vagina, it has to go!


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Gargamel
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18/09/2019 5:57 am  
Posted by: @grey

Just another grey man.

Absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. What you are experiencing has become totally normal for all men in Western (Feminist) societies.

All cunts have the same personality in different bodies. They all use the same dumb shaming language in all cultures and countries.

Whenever I translate German shaming language and female guilt-tripping into English, the words fit 1 : 1.

We MGTOW men come from all over the world and our stories match up perfectly.

That's why there is also NO use in getting a mail order bride, they aren't any better.

Cunts are like one giant centralized cow udder with an infinite number of tits. Wherever you suck, you get the same milk. The same demands and bullshit.

And it's been the same over centuries. I often chime in with 1970's and 1980's stories of cunt nature and they fit perfectly into today's world.

Feminism did not liberate women, it EXPOSED them.

(On behalf of our brother TVOR, here is one of his 350 epic videos)

Another perfect channel to watch:

Bitchute:

https://www.bitchute.com/channel/lW9gKxGFWNIO/

(Like & Subscribe)

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18/09/2019 8:13 am  
Posted by: @grey

Yeah, and to my greatest shame I sold my 3k space wolves army because "they just collect dust", as per the ex

Aw, I had half an army of Chaos Space Marines almost 2 decades, ago. The guy I shared the army with bolted with my half. Thinking from time to time about starting an Astartes Chapter army.

 

 


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18/09/2019 1:59 pm  

I wasn't planning on getting any 40k stuff until after the divorce (hereby renamed independence day), but was pricing models for shits and giggles. Found this:

Papercraft dreadnought

Seriously looks like an interesting way to get back into the hobby. 

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19/09/2019 1:07 am  

Might I add--don't give up on games like Battletech or the traditional AD&D. There are a lot of us still addicted to rolling lots of dice! AND guns/hunting are always a good hobbies to have in your back pocket! Now that you are cunt-free the sky and your imagination are the only limits my friend! 😌  


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19/09/2019 2:12 am  
Posted by: @matcha-savage

Aw, I had half an army of Chaos Space Marines almost 2 decades, ago. The guy I shared the army with bolted with my half. Thinking from time to time about starting an Astartes Chapter army.

 

HALF an army??? Pffffttt!! Matcha...That's like having a Kung-Fu expert with only half his limbs!! Still sounds reasonably threatening on paper...until he gets his nunchucks out and makes a total arse of himself. 🤣 

 

Your 'mate' needs a little visit...and some gentle 'persuading' into giving you your soldiers back. And take his half as well. See how he likes it. In any case, you lot are spoiled rotten anyway with your toys. When I was a kid, I had no money - so guess what I had to play with????

 


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19/09/2019 4:29 am  

I'm going to petition the Special Olympics to give all of the retards tons of cocaine and Monster energy drinks before and during the so called athletic events.  This would be televised too.  I would also taze all of the retard animals there repeatedly until they learned who was in charge.  It's me, I would be the one in charge.


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19/09/2019 10:57 am  
Posted by: @pistolpete

Might I add--don't give up on games like Battletech or the traditional AD&D. There are a lot of us still addicted to rolling lots of dice! AND guns/hunting are always a good hobbies to have in your back pocket! Now that you are cunt-free the sky and your imagination are the only limits my friend! 😌  

Never tried battletech. I've found a game shop that I'm planning to visit this weekend. See whats hot and interesting in my area. As for hunting and guns, that's basically what I do for a living. When I said I love my job I wasn't kidding. I get paid to play with guns. 

 

 

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