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BigSiameseCat
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29/09/2019 12:29 am  

Giving another man a chance to find a better life is what this site is all about. You are most welcome. Indeed, thanks to you for starting this thread and continuing it. I predict you will have more worthwhile postings to make on this forum. "Don't be a stranger" as they say. As for your ex, well, The future is feline....
I imagine her having the same expression as this feline.

I shall try to beat Gargamel for the first cat pic on this thread.

Ragdoll Cat Pumpkin Stencil


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30/09/2019 7:52 pm  

I'm actually starting to feel sorry for her, and no, I'm never considering taking her back.

 

Her mom has moved to Ireland, to live with some family. Her mom has written her off. Her sisters are so angry with her they never want to hear from her again. She phoned her biological dad, explaining her divorce. Apparently she used the same excuses her mom used when she divorced him. He doesn't know about the boyfriend, but said she must enjoy her new sinful relationshop, and has also written her off. Her friends don't want anything to do with her. She broke up her own parents marriage and they don't trust her around their husband's. Even her aunt doesn't want to know her. 

 

Now her boyfriend/ex father-in-law appears to be going through some sort of midlife crisis. I don't know the details but my stepdaughter says she is crying and he stormed out the house. He's gone to buy a bike...

 

She phoned me in tears. Her life is falling apart. She tried justifying her actions, and I basically said I'm not her husband, and my opinions shouldn't matter to her. She needs to live with the consequences of her actions. I've started getting paperwork together to fight for custody of my son. She won't be working soon, and I won't allow him to land up on the street with her. I've clued in my stepdaughters father, and he's doing the same. Its a bastard move, but shit happens.

 

I've never even heard of a life self destructing like this. She has no-one. I still have just under half of last months pay in my account, the support of friends and family (including hers), and gym is starting to pay off. I'm not even upset over her shit anymore. I will never help her, nor take her back. I just have pity... 

I used to be married, but I'm better now


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Travis3000
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30/09/2019 11:02 pm  
Posted by: @grey

I'm actually starting to feel sorry for her, and no, I'm never considering taking her back.

 

Her mom has moved to Ireland, to live with some family. Her mom has written her off. Her sisters are so angry with her they never want to hear from her again. She phoned her biological dad, explaining her divorce. Apparently she used the same excuses her mom used when she divorced him. He doesn't know about the boyfriend, but said she must enjoy her new sinful relationshop, and has also written her off. Her friends don't want anything to do with her. She broke up her own parents marriage and they don't trust her around their husband's. Even her aunt doesn't want to know her. 

 

Now her boyfriend/ex father-in-law appears to be going through some sort of midlife crisis. I don't know the details but my stepdaughter says she is crying and he stormed out the house. He's gone to buy a bike...

 

She phoned me in tears. Her life is falling apart. She tried justifying her actions, and I basically said I'm not her husband, and my opinions shouldn't matter to her. She needs to live with the consequences of her actions. I've started getting paperwork together to fight for custody of my son. She won't be working soon, and I won't allow him to land up on the street with her. I've clued in my stepdaughters father, and he's doing the same. Its a bastard move, but shit happens.

 

I've never even heard of a life self destructing like this. She has no-one. I still have just under half of last months pay in my account, the support of friends and family (including hers), and gym is starting to pay off. I'm not even upset over her shit anymore. I will never help her, nor take her back. I just have pity... 

I haven't got much to say in response to this other than you seem to be moving in the right direction.  Marriage is a risky business for any man.  Some marriages work out, but it appears that most do not.  Especially for men.  Ironic isn't it? Marriage, i.e. a family, at one time was the bedrock of any healthy society.  And healthy people at that.  Then feminism and easy divorce happened, in that order.  Now untold thousands of men are left in the dust and a large number of women have an entitlement complex that rivals anything you can imagine.  Funny how telling an entire group of people that they're victims for decades on end poisons their mentalities, who would've thought?


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BigSiameseCat
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30/09/2019 11:32 pm  

I agree with Travis3000 that you appear to be moving in the right direction. It's good that you are fighting for custody of your son. That your ex's relatives want nothing to do with her, suggests that she has had a history of bad behavior. Perhaps she has BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)? I suggest that any lurkers familiarize themselves this condition, there are several excellent videos on this. Some of our forum members, such as Gargamel are survivors of such horrid women.


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BigSiameseCat
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30/09/2019 11:33 pm  

Don't feel too sorry for her, it's unlikely she will end up on the street, there are still White Knights and Simps out there who will happily support her.


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Travis3000
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01/10/2019 12:36 am  
Posted by: @bigsiamesecat

Don't feel too sorry for her, it's unlikely she will end up on the street, there are still White Knights and Simps out there who will happily support her.

This is a key point.  A fucked up piece of trash isn't worth a good man's sympathy.  Heck, someone like that isn't worth anyone's sympathy.  Gone are the days when men had a duty to protect women, even from themselves.  While the human thing is to hope she finds her way again, it's the mature thing to understand that she's the master of her own destiny at this point and deserves everything that happens to her.  


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#Redpillbible
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01/10/2019 1:56 am  

Good fuck her. Serves her right. She reminds me of my ex cunt so it’s hard for me to feel sympathetic towards her, the love I used to feel in my heart for such women has been replaced with asshole.    Asshole>love.

  Well Grey Man, your definitely winning, congratulations.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-qizrIJeYSmI/UokohLFSflI/AAAAAAAACgo/ZbUGPRY9Cy4/s1600/Thor2+ I'm+impressed+cropped.gif

 

 

 

#Remember therefore how thou hast received and heard, and hold fast, and repent. If therefore thou shalt not watch, I will come on thee as a thief, and thou shalt not know what hour I will come upon thee. (Revelation 3:3)


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Matcha Savage
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01/10/2019 10:46 am  

The Enlightened Kiwi on Shit Talkers and Narcissists.

 

What a great song, still:

 

And one more about the ego:

 

This site has been a scam from the start. I am outta here.


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01/10/2019 11:26 am  

An interesting side note, I had to see a work shrink to get my work firearm back. (SOP for divorce). I asked to see a guy because I would feel more comfortable talking to one. 

 

Beyond the normal crap, when I told him I've gone red pill he totally agreed its the best thing for me. Said I must keep it off the record, but he follows several youtube channels and suggested I follow Sandman. Both the judge and the shrink knew about MGTOW, and both helped me out where they could. I'm starting to think this is alot bigger than most people see. Just most MGTOWers don't advertise the fact, but slowly feed them red pills to guys who need them.

 

Ive also started noticing "weird" behaviour when I go out. Most guys over about 25 are actively avoiding women. I'm sitting at the bar watching rugby, when a women sits with us. None of the guys pay her any attention, and one actually asks her to move her head a little back so he could see the game. Obviously she was pissed off and the barman politely suggests she go sit at one of the tables. On a whim, I ask them if they knew what a red pill was. Two of them smile and one said welcome, how long have i been off of the plantation. Instant comrades, just add beer. 

 

The message is out there. Fuck, I wish I knew this shit years ago. 

 

I used to be married, but I'm better now


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Old Buck
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01/10/2019 9:07 pm  

Every day we help more men by calling out feminoid behavior.

Some times a man has to burn himself more than once to realize that fire is hot and causes pain.

The average age of men who seek answers keeps getting younger.  This is a good sign.

The proverbial cat is out of the bag.

Do NOT chase tail. Turn yours around and live FREE!


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Travis3000
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01/10/2019 9:35 pm  
Posted by: @grey

An interesting side note, I had to see a work shrink to get my work firearm back. (SOP for divorce). I asked to see a guy because I would feel more comfortable talking to one. 

 

Beyond the normal crap, when I told him I've gone red pill he totally agreed its the best thing for me. Said I must keep it off the record, but he follows several youtube channels and suggested I follow Sandman. Both the judge and the shrink knew about MGTOW, and both helped me out where they could. I'm starting to think this is alot bigger than most people see. Just most MGTOWers don't advertise the fact, but slowly feed them red pills to guys who need them.

 

Ive also started noticing "weird" behaviour when I go out. Most guys over about 25 are actively avoiding women. I'm sitting at the bar watching rugby, when a women sits with us. None of the guys pay her any attention, and one actually asks her to move her head a little back so he could see the game. Obviously she was pissed off and the barman politely suggests she go sit at one of the tables. On a whim, I ask them if they knew what a red pill was. Two of them smile and one said welcome, how long have i been off of the plantation. Instant comrades, just add beer. 

 

The message is out there. Fuck, I wish I knew this shit years ago. 

 

Look, knowing what you know now would have served you well in the past. BUT, your life experience is valuable.  There are enough young men out there who might need some guidance, guidance from men like you.  Who better to fill that role than you?


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BigSiameseCat
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02/10/2019 12:22 am  

Damn, being ignored by men in favor of a rugby game must have been an ego destroyer for the woman. I'm sure emergency hamsterbation was required to avoid serious damage to her self esteem. However, everyone else at the bar sees her get ignored as well, that's some nice red pill spreading by your group of rugby watchers.


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02/10/2019 2:09 am  

This thread is a candidate for the "Best of the Best" section.

Premium outcome!

And I got by without a single cat pic.

But reading that the Red Pill is taking men of the world by storm is a huge mental reward for the last weeks and months I spent on saving MGTOW content.

That material will be there forever. LOL to the censorship cunts and the remainder of the parasitic gender.

So many, if not all cunts are like that:

https://archive.org/details/Alex_On_Life_MGTOW_YouTube_Video_Collection/You+Have+NO+Choice!+-+Female+Nature+Exposed.mp4

Never marry...

Don't!

... Just don't!

Forever Uncunted - If it has a vagina, it has to go!


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GregBO
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03/10/2019 5:44 pm  

@grey

Keep focused on yourself and your son, but do not lose sight that your ex will continue trying to get you back.  You now represent the "good life" that she threw away.  Situational awareness is key.  Continue enjoying yourself and like as you go your own way.

​"What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal." -Albert Pike

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland


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03/10/2019 8:10 pm  

Taking her back is not and option. There is zero room for any woman in my life. To paraphrase a really cheesy article,  I'm not just going to rebuild my life. I'm designing a custom built, designer lifestyle full of adventure and growth. 

 

Starting with the basics, I'm eating right, hitting the gym, learning an instrument, and killing debt. From there I will grow. I've taken the 1% rule to heart. 

 

I used to be married, but I'm better now


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joetech
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06/10/2019 5:17 pm  

She married her stepfather? Ewww! That reminds me of a story I read once. A woman divorce raped her husband. And then her sister married him and did the same thing. He says they probably get together every year and laugh about it at his expense. Well, this guy that stole your old lady could be in for a big surprise in about ten years.


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07/10/2019 11:43 am  

They not married, just living together. But he can have her. I'm enjoying the red pill life

I used to be married, but I'm better now


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Old Buck
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07/10/2019 9:24 pm  

Count your blessing she has moved on.  Stay off her radar and minimize all future contact.  

Be a ghost.  Offer a smaller sight picture by becoming invisible and moving around...

 

 

 

 

Do NOT chase tail. Turn yours around and live FREE!


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