I was the last to know  

 

may72020
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I was the last to know when my wife of 10 years woke up one morning and declared she wan't happy and demanded that I get out. A few days later the police removed me from my house. The police came damn close to shooting my brother that day. I left home with $35,  a suit and dress shoes, some papers and the clothes on my back. The 6 year divorce cost me my home, 3 cars, my children, my dog and $300,000 in legal debt. I was a stay at home dad, volunteer at my children's schools and going back to school to get teaching credentials. I was the good man all of you women say you want. 

I didn't know my special snowflake found a high school boyfriend on Facebook several months before. I didn't know my better half started a smear campaign against me to our friends and her family. I didn't know all my unicorn's coworkers were gaslighted and incited to hate me. I didn't know about the secret bank account until the divorce judge asked me about it in the financial disclosure phase. It took several years before I knew about how pumpkin broke my kids down and my 13 year old daughter told me off. Violence and intimidation drove me away for good.

I will never allow a woman to do this to me again. Never again. 

 

Feminists: You awoke a sleeping dragon. Someday you will need a good man to change a flat tire, or squash a spider or fight a war. Too bad we all walked away. You couldn't get me to piss on you if you were on fire.

 

 

How many men gave time, money, blood and energy to some woman, and lost it all for stupid reasons?

How many men have you killed feminism?

I was almost one of those men,  fooled by a poker face.  This was the hot song around the time my marriage fell apart. all during the fall of 2009 this was on the radio all the time.  Poker Face.  My Cupcake used to sing along to this song when we were driving in the car, and I'd try to ignore her crap offkey screeching. I failed to recognize the tell. I play this anytime I am feeling complacent or sentimental for my blue pill heaven. This reminds me how I was fooled, probably for every day of dating and marriage. My married life was a lie. Taking the red pill saved my life.

 

 

I absolutely loath that song. and I dedicate it to the feminists of the world. Because you earned it. 

 

Enjoy your cats and boxed wine ladies.  I'm busy driving fast cars, taking pictures of sunsets and making money in a male dominated industry. I don't have the time nor the energy to fix your broken shit. I'm the man you can't find and can't have. You can't have me, and you can't have my resources. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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01/02/2019 2:21 pm  

WTF, May? Are you going all girly on us? 

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01/02/2019 3:21 pm  

That's better! 

Glad you amended the Britney Queers video! 

That's more like it! 

Bar tender, a round for everyone! 


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Don Keyknob
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01/02/2019 5:46 pm  

I'll just throw in our version of 'always the last to know' - mainly as we all were at some point.

It's all on a 'need to know' basis...and apparently...we don't need to know. Good. I wasn't always glad about that, but after I belatedly saw the light (reality), I realised that I was far better off.

I could have been tethered to one of my sodding useless ex's for a life sentence.

 Now somebody/anybody else gets the 'pleasure'!!!

😀 🍾 🍾 🍾 🍻 🍻 🍻  

 

 


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01/02/2019 11:35 pm  

You should be glad she didn't listen to this music...

 

 

Do NOT chase tail. Turn yours around and live FREE!


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02/02/2019 12:16 am  

You untethered...they found another host. Never look back. They are exes for a reason.


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#Remember therefore how thou hast received and heard, and hold fast, and repent. If therefore thou shalt not watch, I will come on thee as a thief, and thou shalt not know what hour I will come upon thee. (Revelation 3:3)


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You untethered...they found another host. Never look back. They are exes for a reason.

"Remember, you're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did."
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02/02/2019 11:07 am  

I used to play racquetball over night, from 11 to 1 or 2am at an all night gym. So I'd use a mp3 player with the Rhapsody music service...and when this version of Don't let me be the last to know would play it released an amazing adrenaline rush, and i would beat the blue out of the racquetball, often breaking the racquet, but continuing to bash the ball and it would be several songs before i realized what happened. I'd run into th walls, strain my shoulders and at the end of 3 hours I would fall on the floor in  a heap wondering how i could have let my marriage fall apart. It had to be my fault because she pushed me away and got something from some guy she knew 17 years before. There was no other rational explanation. I fucked up hard in some way, but the crucible of the racquetball court never revealed the unconscious offences that i committed.

not until several long years did i figure it out. 


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02/02/2019 11:24 am  

I figured it out and I forgave myself. Once I was set free from my own anger and self loathing, I focused on a recovery plan. slow steady progress. fight the bitch off with one hand while reaching for the next positive thing with the other. My God the first few months were a struggle. somedays breathing was hard. breathing, feeling my hair grow, swallowing water, all of it difficult. but every day brought me closer to my goal. every day a step closer. every day a bit more free. brick upon brick girder riveted to girder. 

 


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Posted by: may72020

I used to play racquetball over night, from 11 to 1 or 2am at an all night gym. So I'd use a mp3 player with the Rhapsody music service...and when this version of Don't let me be the last to know would play it released an amazing adrenaline rush, and i would beat the blue out of the racquetball, often breaking the racquet, but continuing to bash the ball and it would be several songs before i realized what happened. I'd run into th walls, strain my shoulders and at the end of 3 hours I would fall on the floor in  a heap wondering how i could have let my marriage fall apart. It had to be my fault because she pushed me away and got something from some guy she knew 17 years before. There was no other rational explanation. I fucked up hard in some way, but the crucible of the racquetball court never revealed the unconscious offences that i committed.

not until several long years did i figure it out. 

 

The recklessness of modern women in not giving a flying fuck about their partners/husbands is the singlemost greatest downturn I ever encountered, while I had to do with them.

Their cold blood and vitriol towards their own, most intimate partners is staggering. They do not care in the slightest for the well being of these men.

It is a parasitic relation to them in any way, shape or form. With themselves being the parasites and their hubbies being the host.

To them the success of a relationship is the amount of money and prizes squeezed out of that poor soul. Before it is broken and destroyed.

 

First, they would often lie through their teeth, that they would have no partner/husband, when they actually were in a relationship or marriage.

Secondly, they would lie, lie and lie to portray their own men as real monsters, which oppressed them in scandalous and barbaric ways, would be violent, would be having severe drug addictions, would be criminal. You name it. They would lie, lie and lie about their relationship, like how they lived in fear of their partner, how their partner controlled and manipulated them, took their money and dignity, would cheat on them, notoriously, etc. etc.

Gaslighting all the way to the bank.

 

It is not like they would have shown any honesty, mercy or sympathy with or for their partners, when they lied to me like this. To manipulate me into white-knighting for them, which some times, when I was 18-21 even amounted to having short affairs with them.

 

They did also not care that I would very soon find out their lies. They actually didn’t want to fuck me so much or long, as they just wanted to fuck around.

In my experience, they just are bored and unable to give their lives meaning, themselves. Meaning that doesn’t revolve around a wet dick. They want to be slutty to not face the fact, that they know not how to entertain themselves or ever be content with what they got or could do, otherwise.


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Posted by: may72020

I figured it out and I forgave myself. Once I was set free from my own anger and self loathing, I focused on a recovery plan. slow steady progress. fight the bitch off with one hand while reaching for the next positive thing with the other. My God the first few months were a struggle. somedays breathing was hard. breathing, feeling my hair grow, swallowing water, all of it difficult. but every day brought me closer to my goal. every day a step closer. every day a bit more free. brick upon brick girder riveted to girder. 

 

 

👍 

 

It is an uphill battle.

Be king of the hill.


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02/02/2019 1:15 pm  

This is one of these threads that make me want to insert a book about growing up with hundreds of evil cunts around me.

I simply take a panoramic look around my neighborhood: 95 percent are fucked up negative thinking individuals, full of inner disdain and a life built on lies and deception.

The only thing I have left for them is the boot.

"If it has a vagina, it has to go".

I still hear them bitching their poor workhorse husbands to death, like they did in 1974, when our house was just about ready and we moved in.

The cunts of my family just added 3 more voices to the insanity.

My closed neighbor has a brain tumor and his ugly and lazy cunt still yells at him over the absurdest everyday shit, like where to put some garden flowers.

Women are more than evil. Especially if they get they chance to be: When no is looking or watching.

First they take a look around and then they hit the eyeballs of the young boy with their knuckles. Today, I would break her hand in a flash...

One more missing person, I would make sure I don't do time for the worthless piece of shit. Hence I stayed away from cunts to avoid ever having to deal with this again.

 

This just reminds me to add the YouTube channel of Dr. Dutton to our vault. The Canadian guy with the truest research on female DV perpetrators.

 

Forever Uncunted - If it has a vagina, it has to go!


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This society is biased to ignore violence perpetrated by cunts.

Including divorce raping the poor "starter husband" that was fooled into thinking that the worthless creature actually loves him. 

 

 

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I got my first inkling when I was waiting in the foyer to pick up my wife from work. Our toddler son loved going there, it was an adventure for him. We were sitting in the foyer lounge chairs and I kept noticing the security guard looking over at us and grinning. He knew who we were, but we not him.

I never clicked. But I always remembered.

Then there were other things, like a 40y.o. woman saying she's going to an 18th birthday party, alone. A man phoning my wife at home and I pick up the phone. Going out on the town til 4am. And other things. You know the drill.

When it happens, we all sort of know in our minds that something is amiss, but we dismiss it and our minds don't even get close to thinking the worst. Nothing registers at all. We're in the blue pill dream world.

I had a friend who said his toddler daughter used to talk about a man visiting the house when daddy was at work, and he too just dismissed it and gave it no thought. Until that day that always eventuates, and everything he knew in the back of his mind but could never in a million years allow his mind to conceive about his wife, was all true.

I eventually knew my wife was being unfaithful in many ways, I just couldn't ever put a finger on any one particular sexual thing, so could never bring it to a close to find the truth. I even found a hotel loyalty card and I still believed her lies that they were giving the cards out at work for all staff  😆

Then, as it always happens, an event occurred that couldn't be denied. And then all the other pieces of the puzzle fell into place. Once that admission was given, once she admitted to adultery, all the flood gates opened, the jigsaw pieces all fit together. And it was horrifying to discover the truth of what your wife is. And worst of all, what you now know you were sharing with many other men over many years 🤮

Got tested for AIDS, HIV, gonorrhea etc etc... DIVORCE. 

Don't ever ask me to feel sorry for any man who commits adultery with another man's wife and then gets his life destroyed by his own wife. As a Christian I can't say he deserved it or that I enjoy his misery, but I do most definitely fight against having those thoughts. All I can really think with a clear conscience is, Justice Served.

So he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife; whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent. (Proverbs 6:29)


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