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Uly The Cunning
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09/01/2020 11:43 pm  

I walked into my home and took a deep breath. Having been gone for two days, during winter, I knew the first thing I would have to do was turn up the heat. It had been set to a nice 55 degrees Fahrenheit. I set it to 60, grabbed a drink, and sat down. It then occurred to me that I was not only glad to be home, but it felt like I was home. As I sat there, I began to smile, thinking of all of the arguments, complaints and whining I no longer hear in my staked location of home.

It has been years since I was married, and only 2 years since I stopped dating. I would have been fussed at for the house being cold by every single one of those females. They almost all want around 75 degrees Fahrenheit, which is very uncomfortable. This turns into an argument of wasted money and discomfort, and why can't she just put on more clothes if she is cold. I put my travel bag next to the door as I came in, which would have been a nightmare of responses from my ex. I sat down and got myself a drink. Many of the females I have been with would call me selfish for not getting them one, as if I am a mind reader, yet if I get them one when they didn't want it, it would be a different can of worms. Regardless of any of that, none of these sounds polluted my home, my peace.

The next thing I did would get a nasty response and even tempers from several at least. I picked up a controller and began to play a game. I discovered that every single female I dated, many claiming to be gamers or geeks themselves, hated video games. These females pretend to like things to play that game of what we have in common. It is all manipulation, and also something that I no longer heard within my walls.

I am content, and even more, I am happy. Being an independent man has given me something that no female has ever been able to provide. Satisfaction in my life.

"Remember, you're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did."
Groucho Marx: Duck Soup (1933)


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Xanthine
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10/01/2020 3:02 am  

This is pretty much how I feel every day of my life. Even on days when I work, I come home and this is what it's like. Even if my house is a mess, because I've been working 7 days in a row and haven't had time to clean, I don't care. It never gets messier when I'm not there, because contrary to what people think cleaning up after a female at least doubles your work. Women today do not cook, clean, or do anything really except lay on their back and open their legs. That's the one service they're still willing to provide, and you have to do everything else when they're around.

No one bitches about all my guns, or other cool/fun stuff I spend money on. No one complains that they are hungry and wants me to cook for them or take them out, which is easily an hour of work and $30-$40 either way. When I get hungry, I make something for myself, whatever I want. It's easy. No one complains about when I want to go to bed or wake up. I'm nocturnal during my work week, and on my off week I'm still mostly nocturnal. I was literally exhausted all the time when I was still dating, because I was trying to match my sleep schedule up to someone else's. Now I just do whatever I want.

No one bitches about being bored or wants me to entertain them. I do what I want, when I want. If I want to watch TV and play video games all day, I do it. If I want to go to the range and spend several hours there shooting all my awesome guns, I do that. If I want to stay home, I stay home. If I want to go somewhere, it only takes me about 2 minutes to get dressed, put my shoes on and head out the door. When I want to go back home, same deal. I just go, no one whines that they want to stay longer or go somewhere else.

It may sound mundane, and probably lots of guys would ask how on earth you could prefer this over having a female in your life. My question to them is, how could you not?!? Once you get used to this, there is no going back. Having a female in your life is a fucking TON of work, not to mention a ton of stress as well. There is no stress in my life, other than my job. And the only work I do is work that benefits me. Since I stopped dating, I'm happier and more relaxed than I've ever been. I've also made incredible progress on all my life goals, which I NEVER had time to work on before when I was dating...more on that later.

This is THE way, and I am never going back. Life is good.


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Mgtowcontemplator
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10/01/2020 8:09 am  
Posted by: @ulynecro

I walked into my home and took a deep breath. Having been gone for two days, during winter, I knew the first thing I would have to do was turn up the heat. It had been set to a nice 55 degrees Fahrenheit. I set it to 60, grabbed a drink, and sat down. It then occurred to me that I was not only glad to be home, but it felt like I was home. As I sat there, I began to smile, thinking of all of the arguments, complaints and whining I no longer hear in my staked location of home.

It has been years since I was married, and only 2 years since I stopped dating. I would have been fussed at for the house being cold by every single one of those females. They almost all want around 75 degrees Fahrenheit, which is very uncomfortable. This turns into an argument of wasted money and discomfort, and why can't she just put on more clothes if she is cold. I put my travel bag next to the door as I came in, which would have been a nightmare of responses from my ex. I sat down and got myself a drink. Many of the females I have been with would call me selfish for not getting them one, as if I am a mind reader, yet if I get them one when they didn't want it, it would be a different can of worms. Regardless of any of that, none of these sounds polluted my home, my peace.

The next thing I did would get a nasty response and even tempers from several at least. I picked up a controller and began to play a game. I discovered that every single female I dated, many claiming to be gamers or geeks themselves, hated video games. These females pretend to like things to play that game of what we have in common. It is all manipulation, and also something that I no longer heard within my walls.

I am content, and even more, I am happy. Being an independent man has given me something that no female has ever been able to provide. Satisfaction in my life.

Very well written, and very inspirational. You are truly espousing the joy of being a single man and not dating. 


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10/01/2020 8:28 am  

@xanthine

In my profession I do have the misfortune of seeing older naked women on a regular basis. I cant help but think on a physical level what man in his right mind wants to be around that? They truly are walking Petri dishes its nasty. 

And you are right Xanthine, not having to be bossed around, yelled at, screamed at, bitched at etc is liberating. I got that feeling of liberation when I finally moved out of my parents house, and in a way living with a woman is like living with your parents all over again. They make demands, they complain if its messy, they don't like the temperature the house is set at, they dont like that you want to stay up late reading,  watching TV, going to the shooting range, playing video games or whatever you want to do! 

Every woman I dated I cooked for because modern women cant cook, and every woman I had sex with the sex was about them their pleasure and I had to withhold my orgasm and pretend I was enjoying it when really I enjoyed masturbating more. Sex is highly overrated men and it just hit me like a brick wall the last time I had sex 8 months ago that wow this truly does suck. Even if I had had earth shattering sex it's not worth the loss of freedom so eloquently described by Xanthine and Uly. Sex is a temporary pleasure and the woman doesn't go away after you have to pretend to like her and like all her boring conversations and boring interests.

Oh and once she gets older after she takes a shit the bathroom is going to have this old woman shit and/or urine smell that reeks to high heavens. Physically women are just nasty, they love to talk about nasty men are but they not only spit shit piss like men they menstruate when younger and their vaginas with all their folds internally truly do reek and work as an internal petri dish as women get older.

 


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10/01/2020 2:52 pm  

I get you, buddy, living alone is awesome.

My life was mostly living with my parents, then sharing an apartment with a guy who I had beef with almost every day until I said fuck it and moved out again (also because I wasn't able to find any work for the last 3 months I lived with that guy, that was annoying) back to my parents. Had to get used to living by their rules again.

Then a new job where I shared an apartment with two male students (that was the best living-with situation I've ever been in), job ended half a year later, and I went back to parents because I was already getting ill (and again living by their rules). Stayed with them for 2 more months until I got another job, which required me to share a house with a fat, ugly and often grumpy landlady and a student, the dude was young but really cool. One of my fondest memories was me establishing dominance over him on Day 1 because I was older, so I made him cook that evening 😀 Spent quite a few evenings/nights drinking with him and going into town for extra booze.

7 months of living with the landlady and the student made me realize I was "already" 26 and wanted to rent something for myself. Found a place 6 miles from there, and save for sharing the toilet and bathroom with someone else, I had my own place. Made a mess, mostly, but I didn't care since it was MINE. At the same time I had a girlfriend who'd come over every weekend, and while she didn't nag, bitch or moan much, it still felt cramped sharing the place with her 1 day a week. Same goes for when I went to her place Tuesdays to Wednesdays. Her appartment was slightly larger than mine because she had her own toilet and bathroom, but to me it was too small for two people.

I lived there for almost a year until I couldn't work anymore, and once again went back to my parents. Their rules again, living mostly in my room in the attic where I had my bed, computer, books and pet bird. Small as it was, I was quite content because I barely interacted with my old folks, only when I got out of bed to have breakfast, during lunch, and dinner, so most of the time it was just me.

We moved back to the region where I was born two years later, and a year after that, I got my own apartment, where I still live to this day. Nobody nags me, bothers me, tells me they're bored or hungry or whatever. Sure it gets lonely being stuck at home almost 24/7, that's why I'm so glad the internet exists, because even if someone starts nagging me online, I can cut the conversation and do whatever I like.

Little rundown of nagging:
- first "real" girlfriend, (not mentioned here, but it's in my intro on the kittygtow site
- parents, mostly mom (obviously)
- first roommate, was always pissed off about something I did or didn't do, was quite stressful at some points
- mom again
- landlady, who I unfortunately saw naked once (great tits though, shame about the rest of her)
- second "real" girlfriend, though much less than the first
- mom again
- nothing, freedom, quiet, peace (save for the shouting of my new cockatiel, but I can handle it)


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10/01/2020 6:55 pm  

The one sound I used to hate almost more than anything was the sound of that garage door opening.  This was followed by the sight of her car coming up the driveway from the street.  The next sounds would be the garage door going down and the kitchen door opening.

The only peace and happiness I ever got was when she was gone to the store or her job.  Then when I'd hear that garage door opening, I almost got sick to my stomach.  I haven't had to hear that sound for almost 8 years now and it's so wonderful to go home and open the door knowing she'll never be there and I can have peace in my own house...........and it's all mine.  No female will ever occupy that house as long as I'm alive.  No one but me.

 

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10/01/2020 10:16 pm  
Posted by: @hermit

The one sound I used to hate almost more than anything was the sound of that garage door opening.  This was followed by the sight of her car coming up the driveway from the street.  The next sounds would be the garage door going down and the kitchen door opening.

The only peace and happiness I ever got was when she was gone to the store or her job.  Then when I'd hear that garage door opening, I almost got sick to my stomach.  I haven't had to hear that sound for almost 8 years now and it's so wonderful to go home and open the door knowing she'll never be there and I can have peace in my own house...........and it's all mine.  No female will ever occupy that house as long as I'm alive.  No one but me.

 

No female but you, gotcha! 😉

Have a good weekend, brother!


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10/01/2020 10:19 pm  
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The one sound I used to hate almost more than anything was the sound of that garage door opening.  This was followed by the sight of her car coming up the driveway from the street.  The next sounds would be the garage door going down and the kitchen door opening.

The only peace and happiness I ever got was when she was gone to the store or her job.  Then when I'd hear that garage door opening, I almost got sick to my stomach.  I haven't had to hear that sound for almost 8 years now and it's so wonderful to go home and open the door knowing she'll never be there and I can have peace in my own house...........and it's all mine.  No female will ever occupy that house as long as I'm alive.  No one but me.

 

No female but you, gotcha! 😉

Have a good weekend, brother!

I am, right now, giving you the raspberries. 

You have a good one as well.

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10/01/2020 11:13 pm  

Uly's use of the word pollution is right on target. Many Many years ago when I was in a relationshit this woman had a key to my place. One evening I'm there listening to music and working on repairing a gun. She lets herself in walks over the my work area and says: "What are you doing?" In those days I had much more patience than I do now so I said just working on a gun and listening to some tunes you know. 

She goes into the kitchen opens the frig looks around and then said you don't have anything to eat in here--when are you going to buy some food? Next she walks over to the stereo, turns it off, clicks on the TV and just settles in on the couch. Even back then I thought WTF? I said to her--you know I was listening to that---she said you can listen to that stuff anytime, I want to watch TV. 

I got up--left and didn't come back for two days. She's ancient history---now my house is indeed mine--I run the show and permit nothing to interfere with MY SPACE, MY PEACE, MY SERENITY. And like Xanthine I do what I want; the way I want and when I want.


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11/01/2020 12:15 am  
Posted by: @pistolpete

Uly's use of the word pollution is right on target. Many Many years ago when I was in a relationshit this woman had a key to my place. One evening I'm there listening to music and working on repairing a gun. She lets herself in walks over the my work area and says: "What are you doing?" In those days I had much more patience than I do now so I said just working on a gun and listening to some tunes you know. 

She goes into the kitchen opens the frig looks around and then said you don't have anything to eat in here--when are you going to buy some food? Next she walks over to the stereo, turns it off, clicks on the TV and just settles in on the couch. Even back then I thought WTF? I said to her--you know I was listening to that---she said you can listen to that stuff anytime, I want to watch TV. 

I got up--left and didn't come back for two days. She's ancient history---now my house is indeed mine--I run the show and permit nothing to interfere with MY SPACE, MY PEACE, MY SERENITY. And like Xanthine I do what I want; the way I want and when I want.

Why did you leave instead of kicking the cunt out?


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11/01/2020 12:36 am  

Decades ago I was a blue-pill beta simp! 


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11/01/2020 1:53 am  

"I want to watch TV."

That's how they think.  No respect for a man's space or privacy or peace. 

In a way I am one of the lucky ones. I still live with a woman who I have been with for 22 years. She knew right from the start that my first wife was a nasty controlling bitch with a filthy temper and mental issues. And she knew I would never tolerate that shit again. So I have total freedom to do whatever I want, whenever I want and so does she. It works.

No need to ask for permission or approval for anything really. When I jet off to Europe or Japan or somewhere alone (always alone these days) it's never an issue. It does piss off the guys at work who would never be allowed to do that. Pisses off a few of the women too I imagine knowing that here is a man who can go his own way and his woman is happy with it.

I want to buy another car or bike or guitar or anything, no problem. I want to spend the weekend at my weekend house working on projects or hobbies or just smoking weed and relaxing, no problem.

I paid my dues when I got married at 20 to a fuckwit who wanted me to be a slave so now I have my own life and it's good.

A weird situation I agree, but it works for me and she knows if it was to change then single life is a very real option again for both of us .

 


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15/01/2020 8:16 pm  
Posted by: @pistolpete

Uly's use of the word pollution is right on target. Many Many years ago when I was in a relationshit this woman had a key to my place. One evening I'm there listening to music and working on repairing a gun. She lets herself in walks over the my work area and says: "What are you doing?" In those days I had much more patience than I do now so I said just working on a gun and listening to some tunes you know. 

She goes into the kitchen opens the frig looks around and then said you don't have anything to eat in here--when are you going to buy some food? Next she walks over to the stereo, turns it off, clicks on the TV and just settles in on the couch. Even back then I thought WTF? I said to her--you know I was listening to that---she said you can listen to that stuff anytime, I want to watch TV. 

I got up--left and didn't come back for two days. She's ancient history---now my house is indeed mine--I run the show and permit nothing to interfere with MY SPACE, MY PEACE, MY SERENITY. And like Xanthine I do what I want; the way I want and when I want.

You know that she really wanted you to jump her bones, that's why she tired to keep you in her life.  She just did not know the damage the wall had done to her by that time, but then again, she was just another port in a constant series of storms.

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15/01/2020 8:17 pm  

@pistolpete

Getting laid as well you were!

​"What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal." -Albert Pike

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland


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15/01/2020 8:28 pm  

Yup right up to the moment she became an RN and started making big $$$ then the hypergamy kicked in.


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16/01/2020 1:35 am  

@pistolpete

Check, but she kept you reasonably happy in the kitchen and the bed! 😀

Not bad times, in a blue pill world of course.

 

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16/01/2020 1:45 am  

It is like playing with an explosion device. It might go off any time, but if you are fortunate, it will be someone else's mess upon detonation.

"Remember, you're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did."
Groucho Marx: Duck Soup (1933)


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16/01/2020 4:08 am  
Posted by: @ulynecro

It is like playing with an explosion device. It might go off any time, but if you are fortunate, it will be someone else's mess upon detonation.

I read a quote from a bomb defusion expert a while ago. When he tried to defuse a bomb he was either right in his choice or it didn't matter anymore a split second later. I can't remember who wrote the next sentence earlier, if it was a direct quote or the poster's personal opinion, but there was tremendous relief in that statement; either you live to see another day, or you die in a split second and the pain you feel is minimal, and then is worth of neglect as you either ascend to heaven, reincarnate or stop existing altogether.

edit: or you go to purgatory or hell for eternity, that's the downside. Jeesh. Okay, no comfort in there either!


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16/01/2020 4:22 am  
Posted by: @nerevar
Posted by: @ulynecro

It is like playing with an explosion device. It might go off any time, but if you are fortunate, it will be someone else's mess upon detonation.

I read a quote from a bomb defusion expert a while ago. When he tried to defuse a bomb he was either right in his choice or it didn't matter anymore a split second later. I can't remember who wrote the next sentence earlier, if it was a direct quote or the poster's personal opinion, but there was tremendous relief in that statement; either you live to see another day, or you die in a split second and the pain you feel is minimal, and then is worth of neglect as you either ascend to heaven, reincarnate or stop existing altogether.

edit: or you go to purgatory or hell for eternity, that's the downside. Jeesh. Okay, no comfort in there either!

I turn into an attack helicopter, my true gender. I suppose that life is easier with that viewpoint. I would prefer the true explosive over a female's life mess detonation, any day.

"Remember, you're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did."
Groucho Marx: Duck Soup (1933)


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22/01/2020 10:14 am  

All of these are Reddit Gold! You could write a novel on why to be MGTOW this thread alone! Hermit's dread of the garage door hit way too close to home for me. I also learned the desire of wishing to be invisable. Can't see me, can't hurt me.


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