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Mgtowcontemplator
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17/11/2019 7:41 pm  

I was supposed to meet a woman from online tomorrow, everything seemed good enough to meet tomorrow and she just sprung that she met someone else yesterday who seems really good. Just goes to show if you expect a modern woman to be loyal to you that you're a fool. Women are generally only loyal as to the options they have they're evil.


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Old Buck
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17/11/2019 8:47 pm  

Shit test.

She is looking for you to beg and spend more money for her attraction.

She is just seeing how interested you are.  Just another shit test.

No wonder women find themselves alone.  Send her a picture of a cat.

Do NOT chase tail. Turn yours around and live FREE!


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Matcha Savage
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17/11/2019 8:56 pm  

We could inspire you with a great variety of cat pics for that purpose.

Being loyal to the options they have is not evil, it is the nature women have developed to ensure survival of the species.

Poisonous snakes are not evil, either. We do not put poisonous snakes in charge of our lives, because we know what to expect from them.


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Warrior Angel
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17/11/2019 8:56 pm  

Well, I don't know anything about her, so I don't know if she's good, evil, or a mixture of both. Generally, people are a mix of both in varying degrees. 

We also don't know if she's telling the truth or just effing with your mind so she can get a thrill from hurting another human being. Quite a few women are like that. QAFWALT 😝        

It sounds like someone else got to her first. It's happened to me in the past. I've also been that guy a couple of times.  Yeah, it totally bites when sh*t like this comes down and you haven't had a date or sex in months. 

A great many Western women have troublesome personality disorders and cannot be trusted. Learn this one lesson well - Don't open yourself to potential harm by trusting or showing any vulnerability to a Western woman. I thought that my ex was "the one" and trusted her enough to share my deepest feelings and vulnerabilities with her. I later paid a very heavy emotional price for such naive idealism.  

Many troubled women will use such emotional intimacy as an opportunity to exploit or hurt you. Interesting how feminists accuse men of doing these offensive things.  It's called Projection. Exploiting and harming others is standard operating procedure for all troubled women. 

Forget about her. It's not like you had actually met up in person with your date or invested any resources into her other than your time. The only thing that you can do is move on to the next opportunity. 

Yes, this isn't the 90s and romantic opportunities are becoming scarce.  Such are the times that we live in.  You can only do your best with what you've got and protect what you've got. 


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Mgtowcontemplator
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17/11/2019 9:01 pm  

@old-buck

I just went for a run using this app c25k. I'm working myself up to a marathon. It's better to focus on our health as men than dating. 

But I know theres men too who trive on getting a woman whose talking to other men and steal her from those men. No doubt she told him she was talking to me and likely others.


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17/11/2019 9:06 pm  

@warrior-angel

Sometimes I think that there must be more single heterosexual men than single heterosexual women. The competition is in women's favour. It's not like just after WWII where all the men killed each other off and there was a shortage of men which left men in favour.

I haven't had sex in 7 months now and counting. I may never again but as men on here point out that isnt a bad thing.  Std free, no spending my hard earned money on an ungrateful cunt etc.


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Matcha Savage
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17/11/2019 9:12 pm  
Posted by: @warrior-angel

Don't open yourself to potential harm by showing any vulnerability to a Western woman.

Where were you about 17 years ago? You could have saved me so much trouble! I - temporarily - bought into the propaganda of them wanting someone who could understand them and would be somewhat nice around them. Oh, the great and impressive cringe of Matcha Savage trying to be nice to girls and doing romantic stuff! Such a shame, such a waste 😟 ! 

Subsequently, I was told things among the lines of: "Yeah, sweet, like 5-10 years from now I would marry you, but until then I just want to be an unhinged slut, party hard and ride as much cocks as I can fit in my ...appointment calendar. So, when I am done doing all this dirty slut business and old and my vagina could with ease embrace a whole football team at once and no one else wants to just bang me silly with their friends over the weekends, anymore, then it would be nice to have an idiot like you pay my rent and listen to all my endless and pointless diatribes." 

 


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Matcha Savage
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17/11/2019 9:24 pm  
Posted by: @mgtowcontemplator

@warrior-angel

Sometimes I think that there must be more single heterosexual men than single heterosexual women. The competition is in women's favour. It's not like just after WWII where all the men killed each other off and there was a shortage of men which left men in favour.

I haven't had sex in 7 months now and counting. I may never again but as men on here point out that isnt a bad thing.  Std free, no spending my hard earned money on an ungrateful cunt etc.

Thougths of Vertigo Politix on the matter:

Vertigo Politix -Tinder Liberalism and Female Hypergamy


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17/11/2019 9:25 pm  

@mgtowcontemplator

Bro - There are millions of guys out there who haven't had sex in seven seasons and might not for seven more.  Such are the times that we live in. 

People can whine about "chads" and women riding "the cock carousel" all they want.  I've observed people are involved in the polyamorous lifestyle. It's a dance of wounded souls.  Folks involved in that hyper-sexual lifestyle have more problems that a Calculus textbook and more issues than Time Magazine.  There's more drama there than a soap opera and more pain than a hospital ER.  That sketchy paradigm chews people up and spits out the bones.  

Just do the best you can and be the authentic best you can. Eventually, you'll meet up with a woman who will appreciate you and want to experience real intimacy with you. Of course, I can't guarantee that she won't hurt you.  Many women are quite effective at it because they're so troubled. 


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17/11/2019 9:34 pm  
Posted by: @matcha-savage

Thougths of Vertigo Politix on the matter:

Vertigo Politix -Tinder Liberalism and Female Hypergamy

That happened to me in August.  Backstory - I'm 6'2", good looking, highly educated, financially independent, and own a townhouse in an upscale neighborhood at the beach. My ex (whose life I saved) decided that she wanted to trade me in for a newer and allegedly better model. She's been riding the cock carousel with a couple of losers and ended up couch surfing.

Never save a damsel in distress. She is in distress for a very good reason and will later turn against you. 


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17/11/2019 9:48 pm  
Posted by: @warrior-angel

That happened to me in August.  Backstory - I'm 6'2", good looking, highly educated, financially independent, and own a townhouse in an upscale neighborhood at the beach. My ex (whose life I saved) decided that she wanted to trade me in for a newer and allegedly better model. She's been riding the cock carousel with a couple of losers and ended up couch surfing.

Never save a damsel in distress. She is in distress for a very good reason and will later turn against you. 

Wait for it! It gets even better, enjoy:

Dao - The Life Cycle Of Hypergamy


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17/11/2019 10:45 pm  

It's fascinating what happens to darkness after it's utterly routed, defeated for all time, and exposed to the light for all to gawk it.

Complete defeat can take awhile. There are often lots of adrenaline rushing highs and gut-wrenching, crashing lows in such a cyclical and destructive lifestyle. The end is often freakish, pathetic, and tragic to behold. One might feel a mixed sense of pity and relief when observing the final tragic outcome. Pity that a human being could transform herself into such a pathetic wreck. Relief that she no longer has the power to harm anyone other than herself.  And tragic that yet another human being has destroyed herself and harmed other human beings. 

These paradigms can plague families for several generations.  My ex's grandmother was born into a fabulously wealthy family. She was also a codependent who married a sociopathic loser. They bred another twisted loser who later destroyed herself. She was the mother of my ex.  My ex went on a narcissistic binge and ended up sleeping in her car near the mansion that her family used to own. 

This is true. This is why I became a mgtow.

While such tragic paradigms have always been part of the human experience, such is the destructive culture of the decadent society that we must live in. 

In the end, we need only protect ourselves from such wily predators. Let nature, karma, and their own self-destructiveness do the dirty work of balancing the proverbial bloody scales.

Sad that a foundation stone of human life can become a stone that smashes and destroys it. 


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17/11/2019 11:44 pm  

This thread is a contender for the "Best of the Best" section.

All of your posts set the "mind movie theater" in motion.

I grew up as a MGTOW, desensitized by my surroundings to simply watch out whom to trust and whom to avoid. While my later profession made it mandatory to deal with everyone. Even those people who hated my guts. And "play" with those who threw avalanches of attacks in my direction. 

I was more of a psychologist than a salesman.

Always keep your mental and pecuniary distance and watch the soap opera shit show from the outside while never getting personally involved.

In 2013, someone called me a "Lotus flower"... The flower that always looks beautiful no matter how much dirt you pour over it. It's surface lets dirt rinse off without leaving residue behind.

People's negativity is mind blowing and addictive if you get caught in their web, meaning if you surround yourself with them for too long. The art is in pretending to "feel" for them and be sympathetic - while making elegant excuses when they try to invite you to their drama circle.

Women playing games of any kind also fell under these rules.

They "played", intending to hurt me and what I did was the opposite of being hurt: I congratulated them for their good decision...

"Yes, you have done the right thing to pick a new boyfriend, I can assure you he is better than me"... "I work too much and as you already said: I only define myself with and through money" (Giving her insult from 3 weeks earlier back to her)

(2004 and the cunt was very confused after hearing this. Making me jealous by branching to another guy failed so miserably)

(I was actually glad to be rid of her bullshit, only missing her hole for a moment. But that 2-kid-and-baby-daddy-drama single mother hole was not worth the hell fire I had seen on the horizon - she did me a favor by leaving)

Forever Uncunted - If it has a vagina, it has to go!


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18/11/2019 12:28 am  
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(I was actually glad to be rid of her bullshit, only missing her hole for a moment. But that 2-kid-and-baby-daddy-drama single mother hole was not worth the hell fire I had seen on the horizon - she did me a favor by leaving)

Important points -  "only missing her hole" and "She did me a favor by leaving."  

I've noticed that after one's inner emotional storm fades after being discarded by a woman, you realize that you mostly just miss the sex, love, and romance. When you remove those factors out of the relationship equation, most women don't have all that much to offer other than children. Of course, those often come with child support and alimony payments later on.  

I purposefully didn't include drama, aggravation, and endless hours of toil in the equation because I don't consider those to be major selling points in having a woman in one's life.

In addition, most of the love, sex, and romance often tends to fade out of the relationship paradigm anyway. In which case, a man often finds himself stuck in a mostly loveless, semi-celibate relationship with a woman who doesn't love him all that much (assuming that she loves at all or even likes him anymore).  

Out of all the women that I've had in my life, I can only think of two who would have made good life partners.  The rest "did me a favor by leaving."  

The foundation of human existence is the male/female mating paradigm. It's a real tragedy that the very foundation our lives has deteriorated so terribly and has become so horrifically rotten. 


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18/11/2019 2:01 am  

"Swipe Left"

...brand new and epic by Paul Elam:

Forever Uncunted - If it has a vagina, it has to go!


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18/11/2019 9:06 am  
Posted by: @gargamel

"Swipe Left"

...brand new and epic by Paul Elam:

So serendipitous that you posted this a few hours ago.  Tonight, I spent one hour playing psychologist with a woman who had gone on a sexual rampage via Tinder.  She effed three different guys in a 1 1/2 months.  She never heard from two of them after they wiped themselves off and left her apartment.  The third was interested only in booty calls so she dropped him.

Hmmm.  What could possibly go wrong after going bareback with three strangers? She took a knife and cut herself like some neurotic 16 year old and later told me that felt like a slut. Well, even a modicum of self-awareness can be a good thing.

It sounds like hypergamy aka polyamory aka being a New Age whore wasn't what she really wanted from life.  

I didn't want to be her mangina g/f or her beta orbiter.  Those roles disgust me even more than her pathetic lifestyle. I had a rather shifty ulterior motive for assuming the nauseating role of emotional tampon. I wanted to find out why women ride the cock carousel with such reckless abandon and how they feel about being a slut.  I also hoped that this conversation would help me to understand why my ex went off the rails and hopefully give me some insight into what I believed was the dysfunctional hell that awaits her. 

The conversation confirmed my assumptions. Flaky and dysfunctional Narcissistic/Codependent/Borderline/Histrionic women hookup with their flaky, emotionally effed up male counterparts for a depressingly empty game of musical beds and some fairly serious drama.  Even though the cock carousel spins in a circle, the participants somehow end up in hell.  

What a surprise. Oh, what fun!  Can I please have some of that, too?  NOT! 

 I must admit that I had once been interested in this woman after my ex and I had broken up.  After hearing her story of unrestrained, neurotic hypergamy, I didn't want to touch her with the bottom of my shoe.  

After we parted ways, I think that she had a sense of the opportunity that she had lost because she decided to ride the cock carousel instead of holding out for a reasonably decent guy. Oh well, not my problem. Hopefully, her cut (and c*nt) won't get infected and the scar will fade away after a few years. 

Interesting how some sketchy and pathetic paradigms can be a bit funny. 


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18/11/2019 12:40 pm  

I've lost track of how many women I've met and after the first date tell me they're not interested they didnt feel a Connection or they just ghost. 

I admit on my downside, I'm short, at best average looking, make a slightly above average wage that is 6 figures but barely (that's likely not enough to be wanted for money by women in this day and age anyways), I'm a tad overweight. 

On the upside,  I'm loyal and have depth of knowledge and character with the ability to carry on intelligent conversation  on a number of topics.  

I've lost track of the number of times women that dumped me ended up with total losers or ended up as single moms when I later found out.

 

 

 

 


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18/11/2019 2:37 pm  

Not a shit test, but a higher qualified individual got his resume approved.


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Mgtowcontemplator
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18/11/2019 6:17 pm  

@morpheus

I just deleted my account on pof. I really see no way to meet women offline where I live either, and it's just more and more garbage that I meet on pof.

Yes the last time I got laid back in May 2019 I met her on pof, some 52 year old 420 friendly braindead whore I was lucky not to get an std from considering I fucked her bareback, I had a sore urethra for months after but all std tests came out negative.

I'm not going on tinder either, unless you're in the top 20% of good looking men just forget about it men. My pictures can not be photoshopped into the top 20% of men even by a professional. 

Maybe I really should just give up this time. I dont want a mail order bride either, I'm 38, I guess I've either failed in this modern dating culture or I've survived it as I ended up with no kids, no STDs, no money sucking whore to steal my money through child support or alimony etc. 

 


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18/11/2019 6:29 pm  
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I've lost track of how many women I've met and after the first date tell me they're not interested they didnt feel a Connection or they just ghost. 

I admit on my downside, I'm short, at best average looking, make a slightly above average wage that is 6 figures but barely (that's likely not enough to be wanted for money by women in this day and age anyways), I'm a tad overweight. 

On the upside,  I'm loyal and have depth of knowledge and character with the ability to carry on intelligent conversation  on a number of topics.  

I've lost track of the number of times women that dumped me ended up with total losers or ended up as single moms when I later found out.

Many women will go out with guys to get a free dinner, lunch, or movie. They're not really interested in the guy.  Such women just want free food and a free night out. You will stop experiencing this paradigm when you stop throwing your $$$ at this outmoded, largely useless, and parasitic custom.

Find free things to do liking going to a free museum, art gallery, or to a local park for a hike. If such activities are unavailable, offer to meet up with them for coffee at a really cool coffee house. Get there early and buy your own coffee. She can buy her own. Most of the women who make it past this filtering strategy will be interested in you and not in freeloading.

Your dating life will drop by 2/3 because you won't be financing a bunch of feminine freeloaders. You will be lifting a burden from your wallet and your life. 

Note that most of the women that you meet up with will still be a potential threat to your well-being. After all, we're talking about American women here. All you will have done is filtered out the freeloaders who want to exploit you for a couple of hours and then toss you away when they're done using you . 

Also, traditional dating can be likened to going out and looking for a car.  Many people will check out several cars before taking one home.  That's how the dating game often works.  There's no way of getting around that unless you meet a woman who is really into you when you first meet her. BTW, that's the guy whom she usually goes home with. 

Quite beating yourself up about your looks and your $$$. Do the best with what you've got. Have you considered a makeover?  Hit the gym, the weights, the abdominal machines, and the elliptical machine. Hard. A full on program can take as little as four months if you're really dedicated and hit the gym every day. Ditch the extra weight.  Stop eating ALL junk food and start eating fresh, healthy food. Cut out milk products, particularly cheese and ice cream. Cut way down on the carbs, especially grains.  Next, ditch the baggy sweatpants and torn T shirts. Then head over to a better quality retailer like Macy's and buy some nice clothes that make you look good.  Get your hair styled.  Do it. 

How do I know that all this works? Because I effing did it. 

A low six figure income is over $100,000 and is a great income. Most guys don't make over $100,000. Ignore that PUA alpha-male BS because those f**kers who sell PUA programs are full of BS. They do not know wtf they're taking about. The PUA philosophy is a scam and the sooner MRAs and MGTOWs jettison  all that bogus PUA BS and its adolescent terminology, the better off we'll all be. 

You are better off without those women who dumped you for losers and/or ended up as single moms. There's a very good reason why these women crashed and burned. That's because they're losers who love to off losers and you're not one of them. The alleged "alphas" that some of these women hooked up with are shallow losers who learned to shop at Macy's and drive expensive cars. The Golden Rule of Feminine Attraction = Like is attracted to like. It's not that you weren't good enough for them. You were too good for them.  

I guarantee that most of those women (and their loser b/fs) were either Narcissistic, Borderline, Codependent, or Sociopathic.  Those are serious and destructive psychological conditions that have become a horrific plague upon Western society.  Women are particularly at risk for being afflicted with the first three.  You are better off without those doomed, neurotic lost souls because you don't to deal with all their horrific drama and maladaptive neuroses. Sure, having sex can be great, but do you really need the destruction that such women almost inevitably bring into your life?

Again, jettison that bogus PUA BS alpha male philosophy.  You'll feel much happier and live a more effective life without it. Women do not all want the same thing. Female attraction can be quite specific and attuned to an individual woman's unique desires and individuality at a particular time in her life. Occasionally, you might attract a woman who's no longer young and is looking for some guy to take care of her or a troubled woman who's (temporarily) fed up with guys who mistreat her, but eventually you'll attract a woman who has her act somewhat together.  

 

 


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