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Uly The Cunning
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17/04/2019 1:13 pm  

The ability to identify dangerous situations and dangerous females is a key skill for The Independent Man. Machiavelli, has created a critically important model to use in assessing the risks at hand.

Sexual attraction can cause a lapse in judgment, especially in younger men. Having this knowledge to ground your reasoning and keep your senses about you can be the difference between having a good time or being the target of a false accusation that can wind you up in jail and stick with you for the rest of your life.

"Remember, you're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did."
Groucho Marx: Duck Soup (1933)


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17/04/2019 1:57 pm  

Cool

Is there a way to make it come up in searches on google and duckduckgo, under terms like 'domestic violence' and 'mgtow' and 'feminism' and 'duluth model'?

That would be quite funny. Particularly if it was made to come up really high up in the searches

The more men that can see it the better, particularly young men that can be informed and helped to make informed decisions on the true facts before their lives are ruined by false allegations


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17/04/2019 2:06 pm  

Updated. It will take a day or two before it is added to the search engines completely.

"Remember, you're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did."
Groucho Marx: Duck Soup (1933)


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17/04/2019 3:48 pm  

Ok, fine. Having that said we are pretty close to the epicenter of what actually is happening, so, if you will, I´d like to discuss and maybe even take this a step further. When we are looking at compiling a road guide to save men especially from female perpetrators of violence and aggression, we - as Machiavelli did - first have to condense the subject at hand to its true core or source - and go from there in an attempt at reaching the humanly possible/ pragmatic optimum in applicability to any given situation.

So, first thing I noticed, when reading through the columns and giving it a closer look, was that - aside from the socio-economic status - all of them branch off from/are symptoms of `Emotional Dysregulation´, which appears as the center piece in the intensifying occurrence of female aggression and violence forwarded against men today.

(A lack of) Impulse Control, (a sense of) Entitlement, Paranoia (i.e. impressions of overreaching) and Insults (i.e. overreaching (re)actions) do spring from and are forms of Emotional Dysregulation, which encompasses, originates and develops all of them.

So, what we are looking at are Mood Swings, which explicitly are dealt with unreasonably and which are gone out of control in a narcissisistic/self-centered frame of mind.

Now, you probably will have heard, that `it is a woman´s prerogative to change her mind´. You will now realize, what this has to do with women ever more often in our society lashing out against men and children in a horrible fashion, because this - in clear terms - only means, that it may be every woman´s curse that her mind so frequently changes without her having any agency or a say in it, BUT she - in the name of the hive - has decided to run with it and on the fly mask (make it up) and present it to the world as a neat design feature and something very adorable, instead.

Which is sheer insanity/hybris to do or believe in.

Emotional Dysregulation is the engine, which combines fuel and gasses in the explosive reaction a self centered woman will impulsively and often inflict upon others, when she is pressured and snaps. The kicker is, that `the pressure´ is a result of her own making/her Emotional Dysregulation working in the background, constantly: she has a conscience insomuch as she originally feels bad about herself and her situation, yet it again is her Emotional Dysregulation (and her decision to stick with it/to go the easy way) which -instead of curing her ill at its origin, which would be in herself- she manages to deflect and `find´ fault in others around her to make them seem responsible for her feeling bad - and to temporarily relieve herself from feeling bad about herself by making them feel bad, as well. Which includes harming them to produce the wanted results. Misery loves company.

I had women admit this to me numerous times, because I can ask questions and I can also listen for what they had to say. They would admit to wanting to make me feel miserable, too, as  to with this feel better about themselves.

See, they may so desperately want to make you believe otherwise, but they know and hate it, to be so weak minds, after all. To be blown and taken away by `the little things´ out of their control is a steady reminder to them, how `unfair´ or `sexist´ sexes and biology are `to them´.

They see a kitten and are overwhelmed with instinct! 😆 😋 I mean, come on, it is so obvious how they are trying to fabricate this `a woman can do anything a man can´ - and doing so are falling onto their noses almost every step of their clumsy way.

 

To wrap up, what I had to say so far: a lack of self discipline (which historically has led to men being the GUARDIANS of women in all and every culture), which is encouraged by society, not cured, isolated or frowned upon, results in a chronical disease of the mind that stands out mostly for its production of a plentitude of symptoms that give away the underlying Emotional Dysregulation.

The latter as we have seen would be a key-component, the base line and the major ingredient of what it takes to create a narcississtic personality disorder - whose self centered world view brings on frequently aggressive and violent patterns of behavior that are best being categorized as `insane´, `unreasonable´, `paranoid´, `entitled´ and so forth.

I hope you found this to be helpful. If so: in German we like to say, that one hand washes the other (you are welcome:)


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17/04/2019 4:06 pm  

^^^^

It's kind of linked in to stress and mental health so you are correct to say that it is all related to 'emotional dysregulation'. I want to write more on the subject, but it's a question of finding the time.

Anxiety and stress are pretty much the same thing, and when a person doesn't feel in control of a situation that creates stress. Which can create the entitlement where they go running off to government and demand their needs be met because they need to feel in control because it's creating them stress.

Whereas if a person has an internal locus of control, and focuses on what they can do in a situation to improve it, that doesn't create as much stress and they can work towards achieving their own goals. If a person delays gratification and has good impulse control, they will be rewarded by achieving their goals. That helps them against anxiety and depression. So it all plays in together.

Mra is a mistake, because it makes the same mistake as feminists made of running to the government asking for stuff. They would end up exactly like the feminists, with the same traits. Whereas if men go mgtow and focus on internal locus of control, educate themselves on female violence and aggression and avoid the pitfalls - then men can create great lives for themselves and flourish no matter what stupid laws females pass and no matter how much they run to government whinging and engaging in their aggressive tactics as outlined above. We've already won.


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17/04/2019 4:11 pm  

This is a pretty good video that gives a nice summary of impulse control and delayed gratification and the effect it has on success.

Gender pay gap starting to look like a likely candidate? Who's the ones with all the credit card debt and doing all the impulsive spending and shopping.

More like "gender impulse control gap".


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17/04/2019 6:02 pm  

So, how can a young man, who gets to know a girl, go and find out, what kind of personality type he is dealing with and/or if he is dealing with a personality type disorder, which here often gets referred as `being an evil cunt´ under all her gloss, make up and chameleon disguise of emanating sheer sweetness to him and everyone around upon first meeting/dating her?

If he is halfway decent, he can innocently ask her the right questions about herself, answering which she will show quite some sure signs of the state of her mind. He ought to ask her about (her relationship with) the male role models in her life.

That is most important to him. Father, teachers, professors, superiors at work, even famous men in postions of great power will do fine.

If she is a self centered demon bitch from hell she will not only cheerfully take any opportunity to go on and on about herself and her glory, but she will most certainly take this opportunity as a gold standard to as well tell him about the imperfections of all the (relevant) men in her life up to this point. Mostly, it will be about how they treated her badly and in their evil and selfish ways were a hindrance for her to truly blossom and shine. How they are flawed in character and this results in them making bad decisions all the time. How they practically at some point coerced or threatened her into doing this or that which then turned out to be bad in the end. Things of that nature, a girl in a relationship, that wants to fuck you, will for example tell you how bad her actual boyfriend treats (and threatens) her (safety) - to awake your guardian spirit and make you want `to save her´, which -as she´d like to have it- shall equal to fucking her brains out the same night. You should recognize the pattern at this point of what she will tell you, if she is to be avoided at all cost: she will for instance readily tell intimate details about the most important men in her life so far to someone she just met! What a candidate to entrust the fruits of your nutsack with, while you are at work busting your ass off, eh?!

BUT not only that: All the women I met and would better have avoided in the first place have not only forfilled this criteria and would paint male role models in a very bad light, they - as turned out later after some investigation - would do all that in a quite remarkable way of fabricating things of great gravity and very bad effect for reputation or health of these men - just as they went along.

To those really interested in the subject matter: you might wonder as to why women like these ever go out of their way (and reveal themselves to the observer) only to shit-talk the men from their past. There is a method to their madness. It has nothing to do with you or me or any other man in that situation. It is all about themselves. Making themselves feel `bedda´and `more justified´ about the things which happened there and almost certainly do rightfully and still make them feel bad deep inside about having fucked it all up like this, even though they are such strong, empowered and independent women that do not need anyone to fix their shit for them, of course. There is a restless grudge inside these people, which eats them from the inside and makes them go dim and shallow, early in life.

The dark secret is that they on the one hand crave for the needed correction by authority, while on the other hand they moved into the gynocentric castle in the sky and now sit even above the perma rainbow, where the unicorns piss sunshine all day long and they can suffer under the impression of being like goddesses in flesh and blood.

Narcissistic personality disorder rampant in the female part of the population is what every man who happens not to be an island has to know about in depth and detail to not get caught in the net of harmful lies fabricated by such poor characters as decribed.

 

 


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17/04/2019 6:26 pm  

So, how can a young man, who gets to know a girl, go and find out, what kind of personality type he is dealing with and/or if he is dealing with a personality type disorder, which here often gets referred as `being an evil cunt´ under all her gloss, make up and chameleon disguise of emanating sheer sweetness to him and everyone around upon first meeting/dating her?

No woman has ever even made it to a date with me in the last couple of years. Here's a few easy one's to pick up on:

- low socio-economic status (what do you do for a living? Did you go to University? Whereabouts do you live?). Based on those answers, I can predict her impulse control and socio-economic status. I rejected all women on this criteria.

- Entitlement. Chat to a women for a while and see if she starts demanding things, that's entitlement. You'd be surprised how many do. Another one is punching above their weight, an overweight out of work mother with no education and 2 kids and no money expects to date a hot guy with a really good job when she's only a 6 in looks at best (that's entitlement).

- a lot of spending and credit card debt or she's always out shopping or 'retail therapy'. that's poor impulse control. not like she's working on her goals to improve her life. Boot her

This is stuff they can't hide because you're reading between the lines and they have no idea (it's not what they say, it's what they do and who they are). They can't chameleon this. Because it's who they are

It's not just dating though, this stuff can be used at work too and in other contexts to know where the crazies are who will make false allegations and keep them at arms length.

 


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18/04/2019 3:22 pm  

...of course, Machiavelli, your mentioning of the ‘inner locus of control’ in this context and topic has resonated with me a lot.

I know people who are controlled externally and how they act like. Bluntly put the other side of the coin is being a pawn, a mere sock puppet of evil spirits, which there are plenty to be had as options to diversify external control.

Having no impulse control equates being controlled externally. People who are controlled externally can cause a lot of harm and grief, well, they usually do so.

A lack of impulse control gets - as you will have noticed - more and more excused/favored by the courts all over the world as time and the years go by.

The Duluth model/Istanbul Convention is only one example of this ‘support’ externally controlled people receive in society.

 


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18/04/2019 7:13 pm  

Machiavelli just made a list that seems to apply to 95 percent of the women.

LOL.

Well done. Every man should take notice of this and compare his special snowflake broad to the list before marrying her.

BTW, here is a good educational channel on BPD/NPD... The creator started it after getting psychologically burnt by a borderline cunt.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYgyEwnHfKOnRNSfuf8n89A

His former name was "Crazy Narcissistic Ex-Girlfriend" and he changed his name to "DeMars Coaching" after the channel exploded... It now fills a whole disk...

(Start with his oldest clips, you can see the psychological setup of most women being explained in plain language.)

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18/04/2019 11:38 pm  

I wanted to wait on this one (still in red rage mode). For those lurkers a woman can have every single sign and you still get hooked. They start small. The they take a little bit at a time. They get you with kids, or co signing a loan. Then  take one right at a time. Then through alcohol, sex, and guilt they begin to mold you how they want.  For instance I remarried my crazy after I escaped. This time I got smart. Someone gave me the red pill, and showed me the truth. There is no going back once you can identify the crazy.  These woman are not  just whiny they will kill you. They will cause mental and physical harm; I have the scars to prove it.

At the end of the day its still your fault, your fault for working so hard, your fault she gains weight, your fault the kids are little shits, your fault your too tired to have sex,  you fault that she bitches and nags. The truth is  ITS NOT YOUR FAULT!!

These women hate themselves and everyone else. Their only purpose is to take, hurt, and destroy.  Know the signs, walk away and watch them burn.

 

 

 

"Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was."- Rollo Tomassi


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19/04/2019 12:03 am  

This is why Im not allowed to date. My mom and dad pay for my college as long as I don't date. They don't want to see me get in trouble or my grades drop. I have 3 more yrs than I graduate. It would be 2 but I took a year off from school to recover from high schl. Soooooo stressed out now. I feel like Im doing good now but its tons of work.


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19/04/2019 12:40 am  
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This is why Im not allowed to date. My mom and dad pay for my college as long as I don't date. They don't want to see me get in trouble or my grades drop. I have 3 more yrs than I graduate. It would be 2 but I took a year off from school to recover from high schl. Soooooo stressed out now. I feel like Im doing good now but its tons of work.

Keep working on your school work.  You will have plenty of time getting screwed over AFTER you graduate.  If you can focus now, your future will be brighter.  I am not saying you can't have fun now, just don't make it your priority.  One step at a time Brother!  Look into the future, see where you want to go, and follow that direction.  You will thank yourself in the long run!

 

Do NOT chase tail. Turn yours around and live FREE!


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19/04/2019 12:42 am  

That is a good plan, Hermit Muffin. Your parents have your best interest at heart and are very wise in their advice and rules. When I was your age, I made a lot of decisions that were not the most intelligent, often driven by my sexual desire, as well as a lack of experience and understanding, which we gain in years. Focusing on good grades is a great start, but also consider that this a good time to observe your surroundings to understand the behavior of those around you. While we have a lot of advice and experiences on this site from many men of many different walks of life, it sometimes is not enough to fully understand until you experience or see it yourself. The saying, 'some people have to learn the hard way,' comes to mind. By observing those around you, you will understand the things we say here a lot clearer. 

"Remember, you're fighting for this woman's honor, which is probably more than she ever did."
Groucho Marx: Duck Soup (1933)


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19/04/2019 12:56 am  

k Uly the cunning. I know they love me and want me to succeed. They say it all the time. Ur right and I listen to them. 👍 👍 👍 


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19/04/2019 1:31 am  

Well being young man in a "target rich" environment is tough. Of course any involvement with females is risky but taking precautions and doing the pump and dump thing is a strategy. As for your parents, they mean well but their proscription is a bit unrealistic. I don't see a problem with pump and dump but never ever let them convince you that they "love" you---that of course is a lie. 


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19/04/2019 4:13 am  

I'd love to be in college again.  Them bitches were easy as fuck! I'm surprised that I don't have super AIDS or need a new urethra due to horrible scar tissue and over use.  


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19/04/2019 4:24 am  
Posted by: Hermit Muffin

This is why Im not allowed to date. My mom and dad pay for my college as long as I don't date. They don't want to see me get in trouble or my grades drop. I have 3 more yrs than I graduate. It would be 2 but I took a year off from school to recover from high schl. Soooooo stressed out now. I feel like Im doing good now but its tons of work.

This is the video for you!

I was lucky. While I was still in school and didn't make a salary yet, the cunts followed the drug dealers around or the simple guys who left school early and had some income from a low-paying entry level job... Well all cunts followed those guys who had cars...

10 years later, the tide had turned...

"How can you afford this gas eater?"

That sounded better. LOL. My inner will to ever share my money with an ungrateful and disloyal woman was gone for good...

Get a good education and a well paying job. Then look down on them and see them plow though the dirt, chasing after their hypergamic instincts with increasing speed when the wall approaches. (We call it the Cock Carousel)

You then watch them chase Chad after Chad, switch from Alpha to Alpha - watch them realizing that one is poorer than the other and the only REAL ALPHA they could have scored was YOU but chose to ignore YOU...

Tough shit.

Real Alpha laughs about hypergamy and leaves them a few cat pics on some forum (LOL) such cunts later have to troll for minimum wage.

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19/04/2019 5:47 am  
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I'd love to be in college again.  Them bitches were easy as fuck! I'm surprised that I don't have super AIDS or need a new urethra due to horrible scar tissue and over use.  

Maybe they do... I have stopped monitoring them long ago.

LOL.

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07/05/2019 10:53 am  
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Machiavelli just made a list that seems to apply to 95 percent of the women.

LOL.

Well done. Every man should take notice of this and compare his special snowflake broad to the list before marrying her.

BTW, here is a good educational channel on BPD/NPD... The creator started it after getting psychologically burnt by a borderline cunt.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYgyEwnHfKOnRNSfuf8n89A

His former name was "Crazy Narcissistic Ex-Girlfriend" and he changed his name to "DeMars Coaching" after the channel exploded... It now fills a whole disk...

(Start with his oldest clips, you can see the psychological setup of most women being explained in plain language.)

I thought, you had posted the following video from Paul Elam, here:

   SIX SUBTLE GATEWAYS TO BORDERLINE HELL

Which you did not, BUT (aw, T.E.G: thank you so much for this) it is very good and very fitting.

Anyway, let´s have another look at what you have posted, instead.


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