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Greg Honda
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23/12/2018 8:40 pm  

Then again, if they had the capacity and inclination to do a proper job of gold digging, they would have glommed onto a med student or engineering student and now be living the Trad Con dream life. Unicorns, in a sense make the gold diggers look like incompetent fools, as they successfully latch onto a high quality host and keep him for life.

This post was inspired by BigSiameseCat's comment on the "Shallow Minds" thread by Trapper.

Thank you B.S.C. and thank you Trapper.

 

 

I have often thought that the Trad Cons, who are derided by the Career women or Party Girls, are actually playing a much smarter Game.

Essentially, both groups have the same ultimate objective in mind, to be provided for long term in all aspects of life. Not just financially but physically, emotionally, socially, the list is endless and ever changing. There may be exceptions among some women but for the majority this is true IMO.

The difference seems to be that the Trad Con realizes early on that she can't "Do it all" herself for ever. and in the end will need to lock down a guy for the long term.

The Career/Party Girl seems to believe that she will always be able to pay for the assistance of men, as and when she needs help, without having to restrict her freedom by committing to just one long term.

Initially, the Career/Party Girl seems to be winning. She has the money, freedom, sexual variety and professional status as reward for her lifestyle choice. In comparison the Trad Con's life of building a Family and Home seems awfully restrictive and so old fashioned.

And then the Clock starts ticking. Quietly at first, but growing steadily louder as the years pass. More of her friends get partnered up, make babies, and drop off the social radar. It used to be fine going out with all the girls, hitting the bars, hitting on the Hot Guys, not a care in the world! But to go out at night in the City alone? without a big group to back you up? Streets don't seem so safe as they used to be.

Ever feel like that person who's still on the Dancefloor when the lights go up and the party's over?

Not only this, but also the power and Buzz of succeeding in the corporate world starts to lose it's charm. After a while she realizes that she's got as far as she's going to get. What used to be fulfilling and exciting is turning into a corporate treadmill. She can't get off without sacrificing the Lifestyle she's become accustomed to. So she's gotta' work, and work and work.

Perhaps if she has saved and invested the money she earned in the good years she could retire early? work part time? Maybe, yeah, but how many high earning career women do you know who can resist enjoying luxuries if they can afford them? YOLO.

Finally the most devastating blow of all. Rejection. Not from the Betas, they're always thirsty, but from the Hot successful guys she actually wants, and frequently had. All of a sudden, she's not getting the attention of the guys that she used to take for granted. "Where have all the Good Men Gone?" I'll tell you where, to the Trad Con that's where. Who's winning now Aging Party Girl?

And all those trappings of success you were once so proud of cannot console you in your lonely evenings. Thank God for good wine eh? That helps doesn't it.? Helps the evenings pass, while trying to find a good movie to watch while you drink it, and drink it "To help you sleep".

So hard to get a good night's sleep when the ticking of that Dam Clock has become so deafening that you can't ignore it anymore.

But don't worry because one day that Clock will finally stop, and you'll know exactly when that happens. The day your periods stop and you're no longer capable of having children of any kind.

Barren. Empty. Bitter, Unwanted and Alone.

And all this happens just around the time that the Trad Con has finally caught up on the material success scale. It helped a lot having a guy around to earn money for her while she was raising her family. Yeah, maybe she could have done better? Snagged a higher status guy? But would a High Status guy have hung around when she lost her figure after the first child?

It doesn't matter now. She's got what she wanted, Children, Home, Family, Grandchildren, better and better Holidays and lifestyle now the kids have left home. And if that's not enough she can always divorce the Guy, take his money, and go relive the life she sacrificed all those years ago by settling early.

It doesn't matter that she promised her husband she's be with him forever cos she loved him. He's fulfilled his role to provide and protect but she doesn't need him anymore.

And he'll have to keep paying her whether she's with him or not.

Trad Con or Career Woman? Decisions Decisions.

But only the woman gets to decide. The Guy ends up paying either way.

 

 


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23/12/2018 8:52 pm  

What ever bonds men to women I'm all out, there's nothing left doesn't matter if they're unicorns or sluts, I spoiled by my long term sovereignty and glued to my ways, therefore I'm inert to the dynamics all together, I'm impenetrable! 

When the fuse is blown and the wiring burnt, the lights stay out! 

Nobody home at this address,  just me, a sovereign independent ghost that wants and expects nothing of the opposing gender!      


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The Evil Genius
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23/12/2018 9:01 pm  

Excellent post Greg. I would like to add a couple of thoughts.

One: the aging party girl is NEVER repeat NEVER going to score her Mr. Right and the reason is psychological. Studies have conclusively demonstrated that every new dick a woman rides reduces her psychological ability to pair-bond. So once a woman turns 30-35 and has a high dick count she is incapable of pair-bonding with ANY guy no matter how high quality he is. The ability has simply been destroyed. 

Two: Women thought that pursuing the career was going to put them on the map! They were going to BE somebody, a force, a person of repute! What they are discovering is that even if you are a big-time CEO, the day after you retire your name plate comes off the door to your fancy office and a new name goes up--a week later you're a distant memory; an invisible no body. Your cats can enjoy watching you wind the gold retirement watch you were given in return for 25 years of your life.  

But what about that fat retirement check and those big salaries? The salaries are gone, and instead of investing in retirement you spent it all to maintain a lavish life style $600 shoes, and $1000 handbags are now a thing of the past as you struggle to pay the power bill...


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Don Keyknob
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23/12/2018 9:03 pm  

They are constantly taught through social conditioning that they can have their cake and eat it. They are under the assumption that they can do what they want, when they want and that they can still take their pick of any man that they want when the party is over. 

In truth....some can. Most can't.

When they are all told this - and see ONE success story, they collectively buy into the narrative. Hook, line and sinker.

7's and 8's out of 10 are routinely cast aside throughout those years when they should be settling down. The overall understanding is that there are hordes of 10's desperately awaiting these 3's and 4's as they reach the end of their carousel days.

There isn't.

They are unaware that their personal feeling of entitlement isn't a guarantee of a good looking, socially successful multi-millionaire when they get to 35.

It's an almost cast iron guarantee of spending the rest of their days crying into their wine glasses, whilst the dirty aroma of cat shit fills their rented apartments.

   


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23/12/2018 9:05 pm  

Look I didn't read your whole post, I didn't feel the need to.  I can see that you put the work into it.  Maybe just maybe, regardless of the way the external life choices that a woman makes appear on the outside, they're all mostly the same underneath?  That's what AWALT is all about.  It doesn't mean that they're all identical, far from it.  It means FEMALE NATURE is the same in all of them.  Do you see the distinction?


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23/12/2018 9:08 pm  

And here is a little foreshadowing to the ladies/lurkers out there. Venezuela at one time boasted that it had the highest percentage of female professionals on the continent---doctors, lawyers, writers, architects etc. But now that the economy has totally collapsed with an inflation rate over one million percent yes you read that right: one million % here is the new reality: (enjoy your feminism NOW!) 

  https://www.foxnews.com/world/venezuelan-women-sell-hair-sex-and-breast-milk-to-survive-as-country-crumbles


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23/12/2018 9:12 pm  

OH I forgot to mention---"You've come a long way baby!" HA HA HA (insert maniacal laughter) 


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23/12/2018 9:13 pm  
Posted by: The Evil Genius

And here is a little foreshadowing to the ladies/lurkers out there. Venezuela at one time boasted that it had the highest percentage of female professionals on the continent---doctors, lawyers, writers, architects etc. But now that the economy has totally collapsed with an inflation rate over one million percent yes you read that right: one million % here is the new reality: (enjoy your feminism NOW!) 

  https://www.foxnews.com/world/venezuelan-women-sell-hair-sex-and-breast-milk-to-survive-as-country-crumbles

'Selling themselves for 7 bucks'

When the shit hits the fan....never mind the "I don't need no man" crap.

It's exactly times like this when someone's true SMV is revealed.

And as it happens....turns out that it's 7 bucks.

 


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23/12/2018 9:22 pm  
Posted by: Don Keyote
Posted by: The Evil Genius

And here is a little foreshadowing to the ladies/lurkers out there. Venezuela at one time boasted that it had the highest percentage of female professionals on the continent---doctors, lawyers, writers, architects etc. But now that the economy has totally collapsed with an inflation rate over one million percent yes you read that right: one million % here is the new reality: (enjoy your feminism NOW!) 

  https://www.foxnews.com/world/venezuelan-women-sell-hair-sex-and-breast-milk-to-survive-as-country-crumbles

'Selling themselves for 7 bucks'

When the shit hits the fan....never mind the "I don't need no man" crap.

It's exactly times like this when someone's true SMV is revealed.

And as it happens....turns out that it's 7 bucks.

 

Yeah I thought that was pretty funny myself but since US currency is rare in Venezuela the question is what does $7 US convert to in their currency? Answer: 1,739,647 Bolivars. In those terms that is one expensive piece of ass. In denominations of 50s that much money weighs 400 pounds.  


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23/12/2018 9:31 pm  

Great comments, everyone! The loss of pair bonding ability occurs quite quickly, by the time the carousel rider has a double digit cock count, she has already lost the ability to pair bond and thus is doomed to misery, loneliness, and poverty once she falls off the carousel.

Social conditioning on par with what Adolphus Huxely wrote about is what has been done to society. Brave New World was understood to be science fiction, little did we realize that less than a lifetime later it would become reality. It's human nature for the carousel riders to assume that they will be the one rider to successfully land on a man of their choice as they fall off the carousel. After all, the lottery ticket buyers generally assume that someday they will win big and recoup all of the money that they blew on tickets. In the meantime, the cats are waiting to be fed (and have the litterbox cleaned).


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23/12/2018 9:36 pm  

Yeah I know who else would bother to look up the exchange rate and calculate the $7? 

I'm a sick little monkey! And it FEELS GREAT! 


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23/12/2018 9:44 pm  

Back to Greg's original point: Just how delusional must a woman be to think she is going to score a high value man after she has seen more dick than a Yankee stadium urinal? 


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23/12/2018 9:49 pm  

Thanks for the replies Tower, Genius, Don B.S.C & Travis. 

I agree on all points made and wanted to say so without spending hours on an overly long and heavily thought out reply.

In answer to Travis, Yes I was indicating that regardless of the paths they take to achieve their goals, the underlying motivation (Female Nature) is the same. Protection and Provision by any means necessary. I think the Trad Con strategy is more effective with a bigger pay off. And that pay off comes at the time they really need it. Later in life.


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23/12/2018 11:10 pm  

The Trad Con lifestyle locks in a life time payoff system, so it's much more effective at extracting resources, but it involves the self discipline to limit the short term pleasure. It was a very effective system of resource extraction as the blue pill slaves were usually given enough reward so that they could feel they weren't being taken advantage of. Of course, the blue pillers were still being taken advantage of, but appearances were kept up. Now, the carousel riders and the use 'n lose mentality with it's circle of of betas means that not even appearances are being kept up. This could have far reaching consequences as the Red Pill mindset becomes entrenched among at least a minority of men. Think about the effect on the slaves, seeing free men pursuing their own lives outside the fence.


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24/12/2018 2:48 pm  

I read somewhere on the manosphere. That only 1 in 10 marriages. Are both people generally happy. Within the marriage.

I would bet a billion dollars. 99.99% of those generally happy marriages. Are tradcon women married to tradcon men. With zero carousel riding. Also her father was almost guaranteed tradcon as well. 

In this era. A senior living facility. Is filled to the brim, with failure in life women. They were so strong and independent. That if they had kids. Those kids stuck em in a old people storage container.

Also in the next 40 years or so. Those facilities will be defunded by tax slaves. There won't be enough revenue to justify the expenditure.

Lurking women, never in the history of mankind. Have prostitutes ever lived long and been cared for. 

Bastard has always been an accurate description. They have almost zero moral attachment to anything. Pirates, highway robbers, and kidnappers. Have almost always been exclusively born to prostitute women.

Higher dick stack, equals guaranteed suffering in old age. As we all are witnessing. No amount of social engineering, government meddling. Will ever change that. 

So, repent. You've been lied to your whole life. You may avoid the worst of the suffering yet to unfold in your life.


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24/12/2018 4:51 pm  

In this era. A senior living facility. Is filled to the brim, with failure in life women. They were so strong and independent. That if they had kids. Those kids stuck em in a old people storage container.

Also in the next 40 years or so. Those facilities will be defunded by tax slaves. There won't be enough revenue to justify the expenditure.

Lurking women, never in the history of mankind. Have prostitutes ever lived long and been cared for. 

Bastard has always been an accurate description. They have almost zero moral attachment to anything. Pirates, highway robbers, and kidnappers. Have almost always been exclusively born to prostitute women.

Higher dick stack, equals guaranteed suffering in old age. As we all are witnessing. No amount of social engineering, government meddling. Will ever change that. 

So, repent. You've been lied to your whole life. You may avoid the worst of the suffering yet to unfold in your life.

Man, that observation cuts to the Bone.

That's cold hard brutal truth right there.

You don't pull your punches do ya!


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24/12/2018 5:11 pm  

Narrow road is right on, I see it everyday. Go to the Dollar store, a Gas Station, Fast food outlet and what do you see? Lots and LOTS of post wall aging women with no option but working shit hourly wage jobs; Their great careers promised to them by the feminists never really materialized but for a small select few. Do they have retirement savings? NO, so what are their options? Simple answer work these jobs until age physically makes it impossible and/or retire on the pittance of social security. These women don't realize that the amount paid out by SS is based upon what you paid into it. 

Real example of someone I know: she didn't begin working until her late 40s, has a part time job that pays about $400 a week. Is she ever going to be promoted, go up the corporate ladder?  No she is too old and as she gets older her employer is going to have an incentive to get rid of her. They use amortization tables which will suggest that her costs to the company through health care is going to escalate as she gets older. Can she support herself for the moment? Sure. $400 a week is survivable but how mush does this leave for savings?  And when she can no longer work she will retire a broken down old lady and SS pays about 40% of what you earned while working or in her case $160-$200 a week. She may end up eating the same food as her cats.

Has she lived the feminist dream? Well she spent years riding the carousal but at age 57 she was tossed off a long time ago. Could she land some 60ish lonely old man? Not likely what does she have to offer? Nothing. Even a 60ish old man is going to realize she is a boat anchor financially and emotionally. She is selfish, embittered, narcissistic and shallow. Nor does she have the ability to hide these negative qualities. She has never married and has no children. To even the 60ish year old man those are GIANT red flags.

Did she see this future of loneliness and poverty on the horizon? No. She ignored reality but it is slowly creeping into her world and the end result is going to be tragic. Personally I have no sympathy whatsoever...why should anyone? Life is about choices and consequences. She like many women made some very poor choices and she is going to have to live with the consequences.    

I hope she likes wine-boxes, cats and her dildo because that is all she has to show for her life.  WOW what an accomplishment. 


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24/12/2018 5:18 pm  

Yes Greg you're right we're brutal in our collective analysis but not half as brutal as the reality women will endure. 


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24/12/2018 5:58 pm  
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Narrow road is right on, I see it everyday. Go to the Dollar store, a Gas Station, Fast food outlet and what do you see? Lots and LOTS of post wall aging women with no option but working shit hourly wage jobs; Their great careers promised to them by the feminists never really materialized but for a small select few. Do they have retirement savings? NO, so what are their options? Simple answer work these jobs until age physically makes it impossible and/or retire on the pittance of social security. These women don't realize that the amount paid out by SS is based upon what you paid into it. 

Real example of someone I know: she didn't begin working until her late 40s, has a part time job that pays about $400 a week. Is she ever going to be promoted, go up the corporate ladder?  No she is too old and as she gets older her employer is going to have an incentive to get rid of her. They use amortization tables which will suggest that her costs to the company through health care is going to escalate as she gets older. Can she support herself for the moment? Sure. $400 a week is survivable but how mush does this leave for savings?  And when she can no longer work she will retire a broken down old lady and SS pays about 40% of what you earned while working or in her case $160-$200 a week. She may end up eating the same food as her cats.

Has she lived the feminist dream? Well she spent years riding the carousal but at age 57 she was tossed off a long time ago. Could she land some 60ish lonely old man? Not likely what does she have to offer? Nothing. Even a 60ish old man is going to realize she is a boat anchor financially and emotionally. She is selfish, embittered, narcissistic and shallow. Nor does she have the ability to hide these negative qualities. She has never married and has no children. To even the 60ish year old man those are GIANT red flags.

Did she see this future of loneliness and poverty on the horizon? No. She ignored reality but it is slowly creeping into her world and the end result is going to be tragic. Personally I have no sympathy whatsoever...why should anyone? Life is about choices and consequences. She like many women made some very poor choices and she is going to have to live with the consequences.    

I hope she likes wine-boxes, cats and her dildo because that is all she has to show for her life.  WOW what an accomplishment. 

You're 100% wrong, Evil G, What about the ones that croak before retirement? They won't have to worry about getting anything back thrown in the collection plate of socialism! 

More of a bad thing is always the government's answer to a bad thing they started with! Socialism eats everyone it comes into contact with!

The future is history!    


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24/12/2018 6:03 pm  

True Tower many of them will need to work until they die. Good riddance. 


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